Ever since my wife became pregnant with our second child the sex has stopped. My second son was born March 14th 2009, so 9 months before that. This is a long time. Plus my wife was such a nympho.
I have tried everything to get my wife in the mood, even talk about swinging which we talked about in the past. I still think that this might be the appropriate avenue. Since every time we talked about it she would get horny. She even likes to watch group sex porn while we are having sex.
Here are the facts in a nut shell
1) My wife introduced me to porn.
2) She made comments about having sex with other women and had dreams about it.
3) She commented to me about having me watch.
4) One day I told her it would turn me on to see her give oral to another guy just to see what she would say. She said “if I suck it I fuck it.” I told her that would be good.
5) Her pics were on adultfriendfinder , I did this to see what she would do. At first she was displeased but then she saw her vote rating and the people that email her. We had great sex that night.
6) She started toying with anal.
7) She loved toys, even has a double dildo.
8) We were talking once and she said before she met me she was laying in bed with a women (her friend) and boyfriend (her friend’s). Her friend asked my wife to have a threesome. I asked my wife what happened and she just laughed. I asked her again but added if it made her horny. She said yeah and that she went home and masturbated. Why didn’t she tell me that the first time? Or did she have a threesome?
But after our second child was porn (and before) all that talk stopped. I brought sex up and swinging up a few times since then. She will state I am a mom now and not attractive. But she is still hot. She sometimes gets a little flirty.
So I figured the best way to get her horny is to keep on talking about it and to have other people think she is hot. Or something. A friend of mine said to put her in a situation. Don’t know. What to do.