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There are so many ways in and out of successful online dating. What we are sharing here are the secrets discovered based on psychological principles and learning from thousands of applications the keys of attraction - having them simplified for you. ;)
No doubt, online dating is one of the best ways of finding your true love match and lasting relationship for singles. But sadly most singles looking for the love match of their lives never find them. And the reason is simple. Most of the time, we just do not know who we are looking for. We went all out to list out the characteristics or criteria but then again, those are FORMs (tell tale signs) not the SUBSTANCE that we are looking for. We can be our own matchmaker.
But, How?
We all know that signing up to dating sites is already very easy process these days but before we register, it is worthwhile to take a few notes into account. Why? With so many FREE dating sites available now, it is just too easy get carried away with some Hot Chunks or Chicks in town to believe your true love can well be few clicks away. Dating sites registration process can become overbearing, that's why by the time you finish registration, when it comes to the most crucial bit (exactly where people make all those deadly mistakes and are too lazy to put in the effort to change thereafter) - you end up writing something like: Looking for someone FUN and/or Hi,... Do you seriously think a FUN seeking girl would get tickle by that? :eek: For the life of me, NO.
So what we are suggesting are these: (Before all the sparkles take you too far!)
1. Know what you are driven by: FUN, SECURITY or SIGNIFICANCE? It's worthwhile to spend quality time to understand this to avoid unwanted headaches later! Give you more e.g. below.
2. From there you know who you should be looking for (their inner needs (FUN, SECURITY or SIGNIFICANCE), not talking about sex here, though you may get some hint of it), to ensure both of you are compatible!
3. Plan out your profile before you register, i.e. Blank sheet of paper to choose the best nickname, shoutout line, of course, most importantly - decide carefully with your picture!
Why the hassle? If you are serious for a successful date:
You have only got the FIRST 5 SECONDS to grab his/her attention!
1. How you look. Your Picture. Picture says a thousand words about you!
2. What you say in your post. Your Pitch. This include your nickname too. E.g. If you are FUN driven person, please let your name says so. These names may sound familiar to you: Dave0011, Suzy0011 or Ms Anonymous. Compare these names: Tastecracker! or Notias69, can you see the difference? Using Dave0011 or Suzy0011 only makes people feel that you are some unimaginative boring kind. If you are FUN seeking type, avoid this at all cost! :)
p/s: Always be your true self. Do you know there are 2 totally different persons in you? Present the wrong self and you will always struggle to find your love match. Be the 5% of people who know the secret to always present their true and best self!
No doubt, online dating is one of the best ways of finding your true love match and lasting relationship for singles. But sadly most singles looking for the love match of their lives never find them. And the reason is simple. Most of the time, we just do not know who we are looking for. We went all out to list out the characteristics or criteria but then again, those are FORMs (tell tale signs) not the SUBSTANCE that we are looking for. We can be our own matchmaker.
But, How?
We all know that signing up to dating sites is already very easy process these days but before we register, it is worthwhile to take a few notes into account. Why? With so many FREE dating sites available now, it is just too easy get carried away with some Hot Chunks or Chicks in town to believe your true love can well be few clicks away. Dating sites registration process can become overbearing, that's why by the time you finish registration, when it comes to the most crucial bit (exactly where people make all those deadly mistakes and are too lazy to put in the effort to change thereafter) - you end up writing something like: Looking for someone FUN and/or Hi,... Do you seriously think a FUN seeking girl would get tickle by that? :eek: For the life of me, NO.
So what we are suggesting are these: (Before all the sparkles take you too far!)
1. Know what you are driven by: FUN, SECURITY or SIGNIFICANCE? It's worthwhile to spend quality time to understand this to avoid unwanted headaches later! Give you more e.g. below.
2. From there you know who you should be looking for (their inner needs (FUN, SECURITY or SIGNIFICANCE), not talking about sex here, though you may get some hint of it), to ensure both of you are compatible!
3. Plan out your profile before you register, i.e. Blank sheet of paper to choose the best nickname, shoutout line, of course, most importantly - decide carefully with your picture!
Why the hassle? If you are serious for a successful date:
You have only got the FIRST 5 SECONDS to grab his/her attention!
1. How you look. Your Picture. Picture says a thousand words about you!
- Please don't confuse people by using group photos or a 2 persons shot.
- Use the 9 sections method - Professional use this method to capture the focus on you - at one glance.
- You can actually tell what their inner needs are!
2. What you say in your post. Your Pitch. This include your nickname too. E.g. If you are FUN driven person, please let your name says so. These names may sound familiar to you: Dave0011, Suzy0011 or Ms Anonymous. Compare these names: Tastecracker! or Notias69, can you see the difference? Using Dave0011 or Suzy0011 only makes people feel that you are some unimaginative boring kind. If you are FUN seeking type, avoid this at all cost! :)
p/s: Always be your true self. Do you know there are 2 totally different persons in you? Present the wrong self and you will always struggle to find your love match. Be the 5% of people who know the secret to always present their true and best self!
