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Originally posted by: stroker ace
Anyone ???

Talk to her and just be honest! My boyfriend has a footfetish! Before we had real sex he told me about his fetish and I had major respect for him. The fetish isn't that bad and I really though he was great for just bring honest with me!! I love when he massages my feet and he gets off on it! So just be honest with her :]

I would just tell her that It would turn you on. If it's not something that she would be into, she;ll let you know. You never know, she might be kinkier than you think. The more open you are, the more comfortable she will be with opening up to you.
BTW, with discretion...I wouldn't tell her that you'd like to do her sister or her best friend. LOL

Stoker Ace: The last sentence of your post is the key. You can't change her. Different people have different preferences and boundaries. Like xxNervousxx says, all you can do is ask. If she says no, then you man up and either accept that or end the relationship.

Frankly, not everyone is into that kind of activity; and I think you should honor their right to feel that way and set those boundaries. The key is to make sure you find someone you're compatible with on the things that are important to you and that you can live with the areas in which you're not incompatible. To be very honest, if a girl asked me to do this, I would say no and if she said another word about it I would get my stuff and leave. The reality is that I'm not the only one who feels that way.

From the time I was a small child, I was taught "Live and let live." You owe it to her to respect her boundaries and her wishes. If you can't meet your needs within that relationship, then it's best for everyone to end the relationship.

I respect your right to make this choice, but I think ultimately you have to respect her right to make her choice also.

One thing you might try is setting the situation. Let her drink a bit and wait. Suggest a joint shower. Make it a sexy situation and wait for her to need to go pee then just let her know what you would like. Try putting your leg between her's and telling her to go. This has worked for me in the past. The mood is already set and you are already in the middle of foreplay. Plus being in the shower will ease her feelings a bit if she might not be overly into it. Good luck.

This is something my bf is into too. I"m slightly ambivalent. If we're in the shower and fooling around and he pees on me, it feels like a hot sexy shower. However, he's brought up the idea of drinking and I just don't have any interest in that. Fortunately he respects my lack of interest in that particular kink.

He introduced the idea by giving me a story to read about it, and letting me know he found the idea really sexy.

That might be a good start.

Good Luck

Like everyone else has said, talk with her do not leave her in the dark. Remember communication is the best tool for all..

Good luck

I faced the same problem two years ago when I wanted my lady friend to pee on me. Having never had anyone pee on me before I didn't know how much I would like it, I only knew I wanted to try it. After much anguish I managed to ask her and she said "sure". That was it, no big deal. And we went out on the porch where she peed on me.

I loved it and as hard as she tried not to show it, she loved it too. Now, often she is the one to ask "Can I pee on you?" and I'm in heaven.