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Yes, this is very normal.

I'm sure you probably feel embarrassed by your everyday size, but don't be. I had a boyfriend a while back that was about an inch when it was flaccid, but grew up to be about 7 inches when he was aroused. For me, I liked it that way because it wasn't this big hulking thing all the time and didn't feel imposing or anything, but it was a great size when it was needed.

You have to remember that; as long as your a decent size when your needed, you're fine.

So, once again, yes; it's completely normal.

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Sin

Originally posted by: Sin Secret
Yes, this is very normal.

I'm sure you probably feel embarrassed by your everyday size, but don't be. I had a boyfriend a while back that was about an inch when it was flaccid, but grew up to be about 7 inches when he was aroused. For me, I liked it that way because it wasn't this big hulking thing all the time and didn't feel imposing or anything, but it was a great size when it was needed.

You have to remember that; as long as your a decent size when your needed, you're fine.

So, once again, yes; it's completely normal.

<3
Sin

What do you consider a decent size?

Originally posted by: Exavion
What do you consider a decent size?

Well, he mentioned his is about 6 inches, and that's completely normal and completely fine. But some guys are 4 inches, some are 10, it just depends.

Really any size is good as long as the guy knows how to use it and its how the girl prefers it. Some girls like it small, some girls like it big. My current boyfriend is about the smallest I've been with (he's average size but my ex's have been above average), but he's the best in bed so it doesn't matter; i'm still happy.

Originally posted by: Sin Secret
Really any size is good as long as the guy knows how to use it and its how the girl prefers it. Some girls like it small, some girls like it big. My current boyfriend is about the smallest I've been with (he's average size but my ex's have been above average), but he's the best in bed so it doesn't matter; i'm still happy.

Sin brings up a great point. It's a very common myth among (mostly) men that the only way to please a woman is with the use of a penis. Seriously, there's a lot more to sex than penis - vagina penetration. And women will rarely "come at the same time with the guy" like you see in the movies. In most of those situations the guy gets happy the the girl is left unsatisfied.

So the great news here is that the most important factor here IS something you have control of... paying attention to your partner and making sure she is pleasured and enjoying the experience at least as much as you are.