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Dear Dan and Jennifer and fellow forum readers,
For those of you who have been reading my threads, you know I have just gotten through a really hard , draw out break up. And am now ready to move on, for those who dont, looking back on my old threads might help but its not necessary.
So now that Im string free and ready to try again I have a question about a guy I found when I wasnt looking for anything.
We met at a local club, I know that sounds bbad but let me explain. Both of us were will groups of the same sex, me with my gfs and him with his guys. Both of us were just looking to have some fun. We caught each others eye and were checking each other out for most of the night. I figured there wasnt any harm in eye candy or innocent flirting. Later on he approached me and we started talking about casual,random things. At the end of the night we exchanged numbers and were texting till the wee hours of the morning. Because of our busy schedules we could only text for the next week. Then all of a sudden he dropped communicating with me...I figured it was nothing more than an amusing flirtation that had run its course so I didnt take it hard in the least. A week after than he started texting me again and we met at the bar the following friday. There was this spark and a click and we havent stopped talking to each other since. Now this might sound like a perfect little match but here is the reality check.
He might get transfered for work to Brazil. He told me this on Friday night after we had been hanging out for a bit. He said he didnt want to hurt me and for me not to get too attached; and he kept asking if it was ok that he was going . Of course I told him it was awesome and that he should see the world but I couldnt hide how suprisingly sad i was. We didnt really talk much else about it ..the idea was to enjoy what we have now. The thing is that neither of us are acting like we want something casual. There is a genuine attachment and I would really like to pursue this but I dont want to scare him off by tellin him that I dont care about the distance we can make it work. I was planning on moving to Australia in the fall but I could go with him if everything works out. I just want to know what I should say to him. And is this real or just a rebound?:confused:
For those of you who have been reading my threads, you know I have just gotten through a really hard , draw out break up. And am now ready to move on, for those who dont, looking back on my old threads might help but its not necessary.
So now that Im string free and ready to try again I have a question about a guy I found when I wasnt looking for anything.
We met at a local club, I know that sounds bbad but let me explain. Both of us were will groups of the same sex, me with my gfs and him with his guys. Both of us were just looking to have some fun. We caught each others eye and were checking each other out for most of the night. I figured there wasnt any harm in eye candy or innocent flirting. Later on he approached me and we started talking about casual,random things. At the end of the night we exchanged numbers and were texting till the wee hours of the morning. Because of our busy schedules we could only text for the next week. Then all of a sudden he dropped communicating with me...I figured it was nothing more than an amusing flirtation that had run its course so I didnt take it hard in the least. A week after than he started texting me again and we met at the bar the following friday. There was this spark and a click and we havent stopped talking to each other since. Now this might sound like a perfect little match but here is the reality check.
He might get transfered for work to Brazil. He told me this on Friday night after we had been hanging out for a bit. He said he didnt want to hurt me and for me not to get too attached; and he kept asking if it was ok that he was going . Of course I told him it was awesome and that he should see the world but I couldnt hide how suprisingly sad i was. We didnt really talk much else about it ..the idea was to enjoy what we have now. The thing is that neither of us are acting like we want something casual. There is a genuine attachment and I would really like to pursue this but I dont want to scare him off by tellin him that I dont care about the distance we can make it work. I was planning on moving to Australia in the fall but I could go with him if everything works out. I just want to know what I should say to him. And is this real or just a rebound?:confused:
