I'm just wondering if anyone might happen to have any suggestions as to how I can properly develop that romantic bad boy image that women tend to love but without going too far with it all.
What I am trying to do is kind of pattern myself after some of the main characters that you might read about in a romance novel and I'm trying to develop the languaging to go with it as well.
I would particularly like to hear from the ladies as they tend to be the ones that read that type of stuff the most often, but if there are any guys that know how to do it properly then I wouldn't mind hearing from them.
Basically what I am trying to do is to make up for a failed relationship that I had with a woman that I knew in 1987. I tend to blame myself for what happened with it because the girl once asked me to change. I know however from studying seduction and attraction that women love that romantic bad boy type for some reason and I'm pretty sure that was what attratcted the girl that I knew back then as at that time I was very heavy in the heavy metal scene and had the long hair and all that stuff.
I however do not want to overdo it either. I'm trying to find that perfect blend between romantic bad boy and nice guy.
Does anyone happen to have any suggestions as to how I can better address this issue?