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The important question is.... does it really care, to you? Do you love yourself even with the stretch marks?

Yes, well... Boobs (I love that word hehe) are a huuuuge + when in a relationship, but how they look, or how big they are, etc. is not the most important thing. He will love you as a whole, not your breasts!

Now, I think there are some creams or tratments that may reduce stretch marks. Ask your doctor in your next appointment. At the end it is a matter of esthetics, and he will be able to reccomend you some products.

Good luck!
-Jean

Originally posted by: Marcie in Massachusetts
Okay, so I have a problem: my breasts. They're big, they sag, and they have stretch marks. I developed really early and really fast (that's how I think they got to be so stretched and saggy). I'm only 19 but my breasts look like I'm 40 or 50 (not knocking the older women) but they've never been perky, and my nipples point downward. They are firm and everything, but the nipples just aren't in the right place! I'm really self conscious about my breasts, and it's holding me back in life. I plan on getting a breast lift, but I want to wait till after I have children. I guess my question is does the look of a breast really matter that much to a guy? Do they care if it sags or has stretch marks? :confused:

Honey,being an older woman[thanks]all breasts will sag.espically big ones like yours.having a breast lift does not always lift the nipples.being a naturist i have seen many breasts and some that have boob jobs that turned out really bad.i think men really like big breasts more than small ones.if this is holding you back in life i think the problem is more than your breasts.cream, yoga and regular breasts excersing can help,but it shouldn't be your boobs he loves,it should be you.

I'm 23, and I met my now fiancee when I was 19. I was self conscious about my saggy and stretch marked breasts too. But I found the right man.. and he was so attracted to them because they were saggy.. which in turn made me feel better about them. Then I found other guys who enjoyed it too (they like seeing them swing back and forth and jiggle and bounce during sex... that's the biggest attraction) and it all made me feel better about it. I'm also heavy set, which didn't help. But there's guys out there that like every body type.. sometimes the bigger the better... At 19 you're probably thinking about most guys your age, and yes, they're probably mostly interested in perky boobs that you've never known... but let me tell you, when you go with a little bit older guy, they appreciate the finer things more and don't worry so much about "perfect" bodies. (I've always been with older guys.. but that's another thread altogether) This may help you feel better... find a guy who likes saggies... they are out there!

I'm one guy who loves big natural boobs that hang.:p To me, most of the boob operations make the woman's cleavage look great until she gets undressed:eek: .Minor procedures i can understand. There are other times when its neccessary also.There are many guys out there who will love yours. As long as you're happy thats all that matters anyway.

I can't speak for all men, but as a 20yr old male, it doesn't really matter. Actually, the big ones that sag are kinda hot. We like to see them jiggle. But then again, it's just like the whole "Does size matter" thing. Some girls don't care, and some want it hangin' to the floor.

Hope this helps... in a non-perverted way. =]

My ex kind of had boobs like that, and I loved em'. I would hate any boobs that ever had surgery on them it's just not right. Your just falling for the "American" look.