Sex for the first time.

in Sex and Intimacy » Sex Tips and Advice • 3 years ago

Hi.
Me and my girlfriend are planning on going away for a night after she comes back from holidays and having sex for the first time.Its something that we both want to do.
But we have been thinking lately and we don't know weather to just tell our parents that we're going away for a night or to come up with an excuse so the both of us can go away together.?
Does anybody have any suggestions what to say or do?
Thanks!!:):)

Replies(8)

k. in cle..

Re: Sex for the first time.

3 years ago

Well, first off, how old are you? If you're both legal, it doesn't matter... however, if you're not.. well... kids don't tell their parents everything, but they may like to know where you are in case of emergency. Or, if they're protective parents, they may check up on you, and if you're not where you said you were going to be, then you could get into a lot of trouble... it's really up to you.

conor1red

Re: Sex for the first time.

3 years ago

for a start i was looking 4 some advice not a lecture.ok.and yes we are both 20 years old.

wolfhowl_..

Re: Sex for the first time.

3 years ago

I would suggest you tell your parent that you two are going away together. ture you are both legal age and don't have to, but it's always good to keep an honest relationship with your family.

Just my thoughts

Wolfie

max_danje..

Re: Sex for the first time.

3 years ago

Originally posted by: conor1red
for a start i was looking 4 some advice not a lecture.ok.and yes we are both 20 years old.

Hey man! You should be thanking "K." The advice that was given to you was for all possibilities... be grateful that you are getting more than what you are asking for.

You guys should pull off a Romeo and Juliet and just run away and make sweet love on the beech... if it is accessible, if not, a hotel would be fine. Ooooo, soccer field on a rainy night, talk about a Hollywood moment!. OK, I am going to shut up now :p

Good Luck,
MaxS.:cool:

sam_in_ne..

If you both know for sure that it's what you want, what's stopping you?

3 years ago

Originally posted by: conor1red
for a start i was looking 4 some advice not a lecture.ok.and yes we are both 20 years old.

You have to be lying about being 20. That is absolutely absurd if you can't spend the night away from home at your age. If your parent's are that controlling, move out.

brecool

I agree with WolfHowl

3 years ago

You should tell your parents that you're going to be gone. You don't have to tell them where you're going, but you should give them a number so they can contact you if there's an emergency.

Beagle

Re: Sex for the first time.

3 years ago

I don't think anyone can advise you on that without knowing your parents. Some parents would say "Don't forget the condoms" and some would never speak to you again. This is one of those situations where you have to calibrate to the people and the situation. You also have to consider what you believe about right and wrong as far as being truthful. No one can answer these questions but you.