Ask Dan & Jennifer

Well, when dealing with anal sex (right, 'behind') you need to be very cautious. The anus is not specifically designed for penetration, so going reaaaally slow and using lube is something you must do.

Try doing some fingering, lube (Lots of it) and going slow. If you dislike it, then tak with him. Sex is something that is so dense and so big, there are million of other things you can do.... well, maybe not millions, but plenty of them :D

Good luck!
-Jean.

Originally posted by: jeanintro*quitex
Well, when dealing with anal sex (right, 'behind') you need to be very cautious. The anus is not specifically designed for penetration, so going reaaaally slow and using lube is something you must do.

Try doing some fingering, lube (Lots of it) and going slow. If you dislike it, then tak with him. Sex is something that is so dense and so big, there are million of other things you can do.... well, maybe not millions, but plenty of them :D

Good luck!
-Jean.

Oo I'm sorry I mean vaginal sex not anal sex (though I bet that would hurt even more!)

but thank you very much for your response I'll keep it in mind if I ever do anal :P

So you're saying he wants to have sex "doggy style" then.. right?

This embarassing problem you've been experiencing when playing on the webcam may just be due to the fact that you're not able to get the correct angle when playing with the vibrator. You may want to try a smaller one to see if the same issue happens. It is difficult to get into that position and then do that to yourself (::clears throat:: I mean, I can imagine...hehehe:p) So you are likely pushing air inside. This can, and does happen while having sex.. and actually can happen in any position... it's really not uncommon see wikipedia before they take it down...
It's really not something to be concerned about. As long as he understands that it's normal and you're not farting on him (which also happens when you're excited and shouldn't be freaked out by) it isn't a big deal.

As for right now... just tell him you like to be able to see him while you're doing it so you want to lie on your back and do it. This also saves the pressure on the knees.. ;)

It's really common for men to love a woman's a**. Who can blame them? :-)

Also, spanking is a very common turn on for men. That's something you'll have to try in person to determine if you like it or not.

This may be tmi, but I can remember on time I was trying to take some similar pictures to send to Dan when we were apart and let's just say that angle is a real challenge.

But it shouldn't hurt - make sure to use lots of lube and try different vibrators - find one that works for that angle. :-)

Maybe ask him what it is about this particular thing that turns him on and find something that's more comfortable for you.