Response title
This is preview!
It was actually made for Dan and Jennifer, but if anyone has a good answer, anything well-informed, anything that works, I'd really love to hear it.
Since it's not gonna be for them to read on the video (a shame), I added to the explanation.
Hey Dan & pretty Jenn
You’re about the only people I know of who gives sex advice without making it seem awkward – you actually make it all so playful and endearing.
So I’ve got this question for you:
How can one honestly make peace and bond with the opposite sex, deep down inside, while keeping the “attraction tools” one has found in complete non-attachment?
I’ll explain it better: I’m a 24yo male who has always had quite of a BIG ego since I was very little. Because of problems at home, I had a very rough time in which I didn't have a lot of self-esteem during my pre-teens. And was during this vulnerable time that I developed a silly but hard crush for a girl who didn’t want me. I was only about 8 to 9 yo, but the situation was serious for me and still is, somehow. It hurt and offended me so much that I kind of chose to never like anyone again, and since then it's all just a game to me. Since that, I grew up to pretty much, though not always, get any girl that I want quite easily. That’s very sad for me and for the girls I'm with, because I can’t have any feelings for any of them. So much so that it even affects my sexual life (have you ever seen a guy faking it?), and I know it's just because I can’t let go and trust them, because I'm still very hurt and offended. Insane but true.
That’s probably a question you don't hear a lot, but I'm sure MANY people can hugely benefit from your answer in one way or another.
Rafael, 24 y.o Male from Southern Brazil.
Since it's not gonna be for them to read on the video (a shame), I added to the explanation.
Hey Dan & pretty Jenn
You’re about the only people I know of who gives sex advice without making it seem awkward – you actually make it all so playful and endearing.
So I’ve got this question for you:
How can one honestly make peace and bond with the opposite sex, deep down inside, while keeping the “attraction tools” one has found in complete non-attachment?
I’ll explain it better: I’m a 24yo male who has always had quite of a BIG ego since I was very little. Because of problems at home, I had a very rough time in which I didn't have a lot of self-esteem during my pre-teens. And was during this vulnerable time that I developed a silly but hard crush for a girl who didn’t want me. I was only about 8 to 9 yo, but the situation was serious for me and still is, somehow. It hurt and offended me so much that I kind of chose to never like anyone again, and since then it's all just a game to me. Since that, I grew up to pretty much, though not always, get any girl that I want quite easily. That’s very sad for me and for the girls I'm with, because I can’t have any feelings for any of them. So much so that it even affects my sexual life (have you ever seen a guy faking it?), and I know it's just because I can’t let go and trust them, because I'm still very hurt and offended. Insane but true.
That’s probably a question you don't hear a lot, but I'm sure MANY people can hugely benefit from your answer in one way or another.
Rafael, 24 y.o Male from Southern Brazil.
