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the g spot DOES exist in all women thats like saying not all women have vaginas niples and a clitoris.
If the woman is not responding to g spot stimulation it is because she is not aroused enough yet. some women even require a clitoral orgasm before being able to ejaculate from g spot stimulation. And YES all women CAN ejaculate as well. However not all women allow themselves to from fear of urinating

*sigh* for goodness sake...okay I'm about to leave town so I don;t have the time to cite all the qualituumedical research on this until Thursday but for now here is a good summary of a recent study. This one is a bit, like many of them, controversial for its sampling but the article does a reasonable job of summarizing the little research there is.

BBC NEWS | Health | Female G spot 'can be detected'

The "g-spot always exists" people are either 1) sex sites that want to sell related materials or just ill-informed non-scientists or 2) people who don't get what "always" means and "proof" in science.

My statement is accurate and I personally know researchers in this area as I;m a college prof at a major university with a sizable program in the area. In sum, there is no definitive evidence the g-spot exists for every woman and even if it does, it's sensitivity varies widely. One of the greatest mistakes in sex is to "insist" it does and get stressed out or obsessed with finding it versus everything else that improves female sexual arousal.

For those of you who have one, that doesn;t mean everyone does. You're lucky ;). Please keep that in mind. Also, if you do want to debate this, that is fine as long as you stick to reputable research and not a bunch of hearsay sex sites.

Originally posted by: stpauli
Hi guys. While I love your videos and liked your quiz, you screwed up VERY badly on a couple of items related to the g-spot. The g-spot DOES NOT exist in every woman. No debate..research on this very clear and if you need me to cite the medical studies I'd be happy to do it. Hence, some guy being told like you do that you should almost try endlessly is just very bad advice. Plus, telling men and woman there is always one leads to frustration and disappointment when the reality is sometimes it just isn't there and even then, it may not be very active. How "active" g-spots are varies considerably.

Same goes for the changing, trying new sex positions as "always." The best answer is "sometimes," Really now, you want a guy to EVERY TIME try a NEW position? That's likley not what you mean but that is what "always" represents. A new position every single time is predictable and can be viewed by a woman as trying to show how talented you are instead of concentrating on her needs.

Overall, good test. 46/48 for me only "off" the two items above.

And let the real men give women G spot orgasms.

see thats the problem, i do not base anything from internet sites that try to sell penis growth or sexuel toys, i base all i know on personnal experience, and although i am not at all proud to have slept with over 40 women i can assure you that almost all of them were very much able to feel as well as ejaculate fro propper g spot stimulation techniques. i would take my word over some innexerpienced lab rat

Originally posted by: davemalt24
see thats the problem, i do not base anything from internet sites that try to sell penis growth or sexuel toys, i base all i know on personnal experience, and although i am not at all proud to have slept with over 40 women i can assure you that almost all of them were very much able to feel as well as ejaculate fro propper g spot stimulation techniques. i would take my word over some innexerpienced lab rat

Yes, but I highly doubt you have slept with every woman on the planet. Your experience may be vast, but you cannot accurately say what stpauli stated is wrong solely based on what you have "personally discovered." I'm not saying either of you are right or wrong, for I do not have enough knowledge on the subject to say. I'm just saying you should at least look into more research rather than basing your conclusion on simply the women you slept with.

Besides, you said "almost all of them." Just off that short phrase, you make a point in his case.

"The temptation to generalize from a few vivid but unrepresentative cases is nearly irresistible....You cannot compensate for an unrepresentative sample by simply adding more people."

Originally posted by: FemaleOrgasm
And let the real men give women G spot orgasms.

Is this what passes for "positive and helpful?" :confused:

Originally posted by: Melinda H
Is this what passes for "positive and helpful?" :confused:

No it's not. I don't respond that way any more.

Originally posted by: FemaleOrgasm
No it's not. I don't respond that way any more.

Really? I've read through your other enlightened comments, including quite a few since the one I quoted, and every one of them is just as snarky and offensive.

Just my 2 cents. Take it for what it's worth. :)

Scientists have no 100% method of getting women aroused, and since all evidence from men's experience says the Gspot is there and evident when the woman is aroused it is only logical to take the word of the man who's slept with 40 women over a scientist who cannot guarantee the women were aroused in the first place. No sleeping with a lot of women is not an exact science, but if science were an exact science in this case no woman would ever go unpleased. The fact is a science lab is like a doctor's office if you're the patient or the lab rat chances are you're not happy to be there and in which case you're not going to be aroused.