Ask Dan & Jennifer

juz tell ur BF about the cravings
if he feels insulted tell himthat you will still love him
and u just want to have "it"
and in worst case pussy sex toys let him do it for u :D

Well, if neither of you are very comfortable with threesomes having one could spell disaster for your relationship. It takes two very comfortable people to be able to bring another person into the bedroom without hard feelings (no pun intended) forming.
The last thing you need is for him to start thinking "What if he's doing this because I'm not good enough to satisfy him... what if he's unhappy and this was his was of telling me?".

That would indeed be bad for the relationship.

Also, if he is still afraid that you are no longer attracted to him you must be sure to do your utmost to prove otherwise. Do something romantic for him, if he's into cuddling do that if you aren't already.

Some guys really love cuddling after sex. If you aren't that type, but he is, make that sacrifice and hold him for a while. It will help ease his anxieties because he will feel that he is attractive enough for you to want to be physically close to.

Before I can say anything further I must know:
Is your boyfriend bisexual?

my boyfriend is straight but he has known about me being bisexual since we start dating 9 months ago and as far as i know he is very comfortable with the matter.

-Thinks- Well, if he's comfortable with a threesome then you have an outlet (So long as you're comfortable with him in bed with another person)

Maybe set some rules for the threesome, like what exactly is allowed to be done with the other girl. If you can set up some rules like that and follow them you'll probably be a lot more comfortable with it, even after the fact.

But I must ask: In the first post you said that neither of you were totally comfortable with the idea. Did you talk to him about it since posting this?

we haven't talked about it since i posted this since whenever i bring it up it makes him a little upset. I think he thinks if we have a threesome that ill enjoy doing things with a girl more than him and leave him. im not sure though

Well there's always the whole "you do something for me and I'll do something for you" arrangement. If he does the threesome thing with you, you could do something he'd like to do.

If he does agree to it then do the whole "rules" thing and try and get him to set some rules for you, that way he can be more comfortable with the situation.

Once he's doing it he probably won't mind too much as long as you've taken those preemptive measures to set restrictions.

Of course, if he's still really uncomfortable with the idea even if you do talk about rules and stuff... just try talking to him about it again later in the relationship. Maybe once he feels that you two are closer he'll be more comfortable with it.

Regardless, assure him that you're not like that other girl who left her boyfriend for another woman and that he's the one you love, not some other girl you happen to mess around with for one night.

Try bringing it up and saying "How would you feel if we put restrictions on how far we go with the other person" or something to that effect. Gently coax him into it. Chances are if he's slightly open to it, you can convince him.

But if he's just flat out offended by the idea it's best to let it rest for now.

So talk to him about it and include what I had mentioned and post how it went.

Remember, don't push him into something he's against doing, it'll only spark resentment.