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Originally posted by: TaintedRose85
I don't see a point in it and even more I don't really feel sexy when I dress up I am more the kind of person that likes to get tied down and get down to it in a way :D

I do want to please him hell he's my best friend I can tell him anything I want and he will listin to me its just I don't want to hurt him and I want to know how many people like dressing up for sex if you get my meaning. Yes I know there are fantacys out there of girls dressing up as little school girls

hmm
i see the problem i think :(

the first thing "Iam more the kind of person that likes to get tied down and get down to it in a way :D "

Does he knows this ? if he don´t knows it tell him i see a relationship Like give and take :D
it may make you feel like you are more up to it then :D

Second

the problem whit "he's my best friend I can tell him anything I want and he will listin to me its just I don't want to hurt him"

do you think you will hurt him by telling him you don´t like to dress up ?

if he is "your best friend" don´t you think he will understand ?
if so i think you should tell him any way because if you don´t feel to dress up it should not feel the same way as if you ware up to it
i feel that way

i had a girl friend once that liked to dress up and she made it more spontaneous
i never had do tell her that i liked it

but when the time come she stopped doing it
i told her that i liked it and i felt like i was pouching her to it and it did not feel the same way

i think you could do it if it does´t feel wrong

you should never do things that feels wrong

at some time you may feel like doing it and thats the time you should do it

no other time like you are under press

Of course we all have our fantacys of things and i think you should make up some fantasys to gether

i think thats the best fantacys when you can play at the same level

some times it is worth trying out the others fantasys but if it don´t feel right
you should not do it

i hope it helped and if there are more questions you would like to ask just write more

sry for my bad english

Thank you for all your help and yeah I have told him and well I only do it once in while to keep the spice up more or less but also i have talked to him about it after I wrote this post to be honest with you. He was happy i told him and we decided that we both have our wried perks LOL in a way I mean he's learning how much fun is to inflict pain (nails across the back and biting) and I am learning that I am really not so shy about certain things but hey like you sayd a relationship is based on sharing. Thanks again and so kay you got your point across

Originally posted by: TaintedRose85
He was happy i told him and we decided that we both have our wried perks LOL in a way I mean he's learning how much fun is to inflict pain (nails across the back and biting) and I am learning that I am really not so shy about certain things but hey like you sayd a relationship is based on sharing. Thanks again and so kay you got your point across

Iam glad i could help you out :)

OK, I've got to know. What exactly does a bondage model do?

LOL well i mostly did pictures tied up and beat with floggers etc and a person took pictures of it

My horizons expand every day.

Regarding your original posts, not everyone has to be crazy about every activity. What would be wrong with accommodating his desire to see you dressed up sometimes? Sometimes you and he can do things the way you like to and sometimes let him take the lead.

We like to think of our relationships as perfect compatibility. In reality, there is some give and take. If you can be flexible on this, that gives him an incentive to be more flexible in accommodating your desires. Relationships are often based on "exchange" more than we like to think. I don't see any reason that both of you can't get your needs met in this situation. Please let me know if I've misunderstood anything.

FYI, I was wondering if you were modeling "gear" or if you were modeling for a how-to book on different activities or if there was a definition I didn't even know about. I think it's cool you're so in-touch with what you want.