Ask Dan & Jennifer

Did you try in your previous topic where I suggested you loosen her up before you have sex?

put your index finger in her vagina and stroke down towards her anus because this will loosen her vagina. Do a 5 minute session and then stop. Repeat another day and keep doing it until she's loose.

Also have a bath with to further relax her vagina.

Hey bro,
that's all totally normal.

One thing that could help is to give her an orgasm first (from oral), this will help to loosen up the vaginal muscles initially + she'll love it and you should too :)

Whilst you go down on her, use her wetness to try and slip just one finger insider her and keep it there whilst she orgasms... this will slowly let her pussy relax and expand.

Then, when you want to have sex, try having her on her back, and you kneeling between her legs, then just gently ease into her. Maybe lean forward and kiss her and think about other things.

If she's nervous, or excited as well... she may accidentally be squeezing her PC muscles as well. Just take your time and enjoy everything.

If it's still difficult, go down on her again, and repeat :)

Things will get easier, just make sure that she is relaxed and breathing deeply as well.

Have fun and don't stress.

And remember... porn is NOT real life!!

:D

wen my girlfriend and i started having sexual relations i founf she was to tight for me. my advice is this first take lots of time warming up or foreplay kissing and feeling sometimes a message helps her relax its all about the relaxation then wen shes getting wet enouh you shud put your fingers inside her or one at first then sorta push down and move around ently untill you feel her move inside a little keep doing this untill you can fit two fingers in comfortably use alot of lube aswell sometimes that helps and is a must for sex with a tight partner if your using a condom make sure thats lubed up to then relax and have it feeling narutal not awkward or she will naturally tighten up good luck ;)

Thanks so much! We should be trying again sometime next week. But I'll try a LOT of foreplay and make her orgasm before sex sounds great! Because then she'll be very relaxed and hopefully it'll help! And when I said porn, I just meant real life. Like, SOOO many people have sex all the time! And it cant be THIS hard for everyone! But thanks! I'll definitely write back if anything happens.