Ask Dan & Jennifer

well my friend, the best thing i can say is to just move on. i understand that you love her, but it seems like she doesnt care for you like that anymore. and if that truely is the case then she is not the one that is meant for you. i love that old saying "you may have many loves in life, but you only get one TRUE love." and in this case, i just dont think she is it. if she was your true love then she would feel the same way as you do for her and want to either be with you, or start working to build a stronger bond so you two can be together happily... now im not telling you what to do. if you truely velieve with all your heart that shes the only one for you, then by all means stick it out and wait for her to come back to you. but before you play the waiting game you may want to consider one large showing of affection. then sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel and what she means to you. then take it from there... good luck either way!

Kurt: I just don't see this working out in a way that you'll like. She has moved on. She may be trying to keep you as a backup in case she wants to get out of her new relationship. Either way, I don't see you ever having the place in her heart you want to; not for the foreseeable future at least. This is where life is different from fairy tales and sitcoms. I think it's over. The sooner you accept that and move on, the less you'll hurt. When my wife told me she wanted a divorce, I was devastated. I thought she was the only woman I could ever love. I found out I was wrong. It doesn't feel like it now, but you will love again.

Don't hurt your self and your feelings. If you really love her you should talk to her and tell that you love her. But if she doesn't want you anymore set her free and find the better girl for you.