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Hallo! I need a practical advice and I hoep you help me.
I had the first face to face date with a guy I met on a dating sight, today. He was nice, he is rather educated and the conversation we had was ok,. What I did not like was that he would tuch me from time to time. I felt a bit confused about that, as it is rather unusual in our culture and the guy is from Indiensia, rased up in Europe. In any case, when we set down he would ocasionally tuch my knies with his hand, then once he put his hand on my tigh. I would always try to send him body messages or move away, trying to tell him that I do not feel confortable with him doing that. It was first date, and we spent all together 1,5 h. Anyway, when he put his feet next to mine (after one hour of knowing me) I slowly, realised i should be going home. So I did.
I know the guy wants to see me again. But I felt really unconfortable about him being this phisically close on the first date.
I need your oppinuion. Could this be cultural difference or this guy is just very pushy? I am seriously thinking about saying no to the next date. What do you think? Should I give him a second chance? And if I about to say a no, what is the best way to do it? I do not want to be rude.
I had the first face to face date with a guy I met on a dating sight, today. He was nice, he is rather educated and the conversation we had was ok,. What I did not like was that he would tuch me from time to time. I felt a bit confused about that, as it is rather unusual in our culture and the guy is from Indiensia, rased up in Europe. In any case, when we set down he would ocasionally tuch my knies with his hand, then once he put his hand on my tigh. I would always try to send him body messages or move away, trying to tell him that I do not feel confortable with him doing that. It was first date, and we spent all together 1,5 h. Anyway, when he put his feet next to mine (after one hour of knowing me) I slowly, realised i should be going home. So I did.
I know the guy wants to see me again. But I felt really unconfortable about him being this phisically close on the first date.
I need your oppinuion. Could this be cultural difference or this guy is just very pushy? I am seriously thinking about saying no to the next date. What do you think? Should I give him a second chance? And if I about to say a no, what is the best way to do it? I do not want to be rude.
