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Thank you for looking at this post and helping me to figure things out as I am lost for options and I do not want to call if that was a signal for me to get lost.
A month ago I met a guy on a christian site. He said he is and so I am, we both are christians, so cool I thought. One reason I went to that site was because of the overwhelmining pressure from non christian men who expect me to perform sexual acts were we on a date.
Am 37, he is 36. I have explained my position against premarital sex, but I do not think he wants to honor it. Frequent conversations about having sex with me repeatedly arise and even if I stop him and make my position heard repeatedly, he does not seem to get it.
I know my new found friend is very sexual. I spoke to him for six hours the first time we spoke and without talking about anything sexual I knew there was an attraction from the chemical reactions that had taken place within me. When I went to sleep. I was so aroused.
He has asked me numerous sexual questions which I shyed away from answering at first, but he demanded answers.
Last night he called me after midnight his time and told me he is so aroused if I lived in his city he would be a repeated offender as he described how deep inside of me he would get and what he would do with my pelvis.
I tried referring to verses of scripture I used to use when I felt sexually overwhelmed. He said that he did not want to hear that.
I could hear pain in his voice, but I so want to uphold the standards I've gaurded myself with for all these years. We have talked at lengths on various subjects, sex being one of them, which he reminded me of as well. He proceeded to tell me he is sorry he has dragged me down with him from my high standards.
My voice broke as I said goodnite. I have been very disturbed since and seeking answers as I want to know what to do. He expressed he cares for me especially when am aching, also with things am trying to do regards my finances. Still I think am questioning how genuine he is I would not like to call if that was a cue to leave him alone at the same time, if he has issues sexually am thinking he needs help. What must I do? :confused:
A month ago I met a guy on a christian site. He said he is and so I am, we both are christians, so cool I thought. One reason I went to that site was because of the overwhelmining pressure from non christian men who expect me to perform sexual acts were we on a date.
Am 37, he is 36. I have explained my position against premarital sex, but I do not think he wants to honor it. Frequent conversations about having sex with me repeatedly arise and even if I stop him and make my position heard repeatedly, he does not seem to get it.
I know my new found friend is very sexual. I spoke to him for six hours the first time we spoke and without talking about anything sexual I knew there was an attraction from the chemical reactions that had taken place within me. When I went to sleep. I was so aroused.
He has asked me numerous sexual questions which I shyed away from answering at first, but he demanded answers.
Last night he called me after midnight his time and told me he is so aroused if I lived in his city he would be a repeated offender as he described how deep inside of me he would get and what he would do with my pelvis.
I tried referring to verses of scripture I used to use when I felt sexually overwhelmed. He said that he did not want to hear that.
I could hear pain in his voice, but I so want to uphold the standards I've gaurded myself with for all these years. We have talked at lengths on various subjects, sex being one of them, which he reminded me of as well. He proceeded to tell me he is sorry he has dragged me down with him from my high standards.
My voice broke as I said goodnite. I have been very disturbed since and seeking answers as I want to know what to do. He expressed he cares for me especially when am aching, also with things am trying to do regards my finances. Still I think am questioning how genuine he is I would not like to call if that was a cue to leave him alone at the same time, if he has issues sexually am thinking he needs help. What must I do? :confused:
