should i tell my boyfriend i cheated on him, even though i might be a lesbian.

in Sex and Intimacy » Gay / Lesbian Sex and Dating • 2 years ago

Well u see I used to be a using addict, and my boyfriend left town and I cheated on him on new years. I broke up with him because I felt bad the next day. Then I had brake up sex with this other guy who just broke up wit his girlfriend for the same reason. I usually don't sleep around but it just happened. Anyways
My boyfriend, well ex. boyfriend now. Were still talking planning to get back together when he comes back home. but the thing is he has a girl friend and he’s living with her but he says he doesn’t like her he’s just desperate to live somewhere...and he’s really honest live it but hate it at the same time . so I was going to plan to tell him I cheated on him, and explain the whole situation, do you think I should tell him I cheated on him? But that’s not it!! I have always had a hunch that I like girls too, but actually for the past two years I haven’t been attracted to guys, sexually and emotionally but I think I might have been forcing myself to think I am .. I have never had a girl friend but it do like this other girl, I told my boyfriend this, and he was like hot! But I don't think he got it. should I see what happens with my boyfriend and see if I like guys or girls, or should I tell him I cheated on him and not get back together even if he wants to take me back then go for this girl I've liked for about a year?
Oh and isn’t being a teenager just great? Ha-ha

by the way i didnt read the limit 100 words

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Beagle

Re: should i tell my boyfriend i cheated on him, even though i might be a lesbian.

2 years ago

twig-E: I think you need to take some time off from relationships and decide what you're wanting. From your posts, I couldn't tell what you want to happen and I'm going to bet that that's because you are unsure yourself. To be successful in anything, we have to define what success is. Until you know what your goals and values are, I don't think you're ready to be in a relationship with anyone. It's not right to use someone just to check out your sexual orientation unless you tell them that's what you're doing. It's not fair to let a boy or girl fall in love with you when you're just basically experimenting. Be sure not to use someone's heart for your experiments. It's only casual sex if both people understand it that way. The key guiding principle here is being honest with everyone you're involved with. My feeling is that you need to take some time off from relationships and figure out where you are and where you want to go in your life. Once you know what you want, then it makes sense to start planning how to get there.