Ask Dan & Jennifer

ughh!!!
im so sick of these guys always wanting to know if the can make it bigger or make it wider or wutever....

im a guy and im not exactly the most well endowed and im still just fine with the size of mine.....remember a couple things:

1)its not how big it is....its how u use it
and...
2)its maybe not a size issue..maybe its a fit issue...it may sound weird...but ur penis and her vagina may not exactly be....well.....compatible ya know..

sorry i cant give u a better answer...
but i guess if the stubborn type that still isnt satisfied with this then u can always try viagra and other things of the sort

Sigh! A larger penis does not mean more pleasure. A larger penis does not result in more pleasure. If your partner is not satisfied there is something else going on. Lack of romance, lack of foreplay, lack of good technique, etc. A bigger penis is not going to make her happier.

Work at your cunnilingus and become really great at it. Read about the female anatomy. Understand what engages your girlfriend, what makes her hot. It won't be a big penis. It will be a romantic, loving, partner who is orally skilled and ensures his partner an orgasm.

A recent survey indicated that most women consider 12-15 minutes the optimum time for intercourse. This means that to have an orgasm foreplay is necessary and stimulation of the clitoris as well.

ok. thanks.

Originally posted by: sizeretard
hello dan and jenn. is my first time coming across this forum.i have a question in my heart for a long time.

i wish to let my parther enjoy more good sex. is there any way to increase the width of my dick?

Hi sizeretard (perhaps I could call you Bob or something, that login just doesn't seem, well, polite. :) )

First, just wanted to say that's an awesome goal - wanting your partner to better enjoy sex with you; that's awesome!

But as Scarbowl very well said, there's a lot more to great sex than penis size. A LOT more. Our culture is so obsessed with the size of the penis and most people don't realize that size is only a small part of (no pun intended, seriously) of sexual enjoyment. Sure there are extreme examples, but frankly the difference between 5" and 7" is not going to make or break your sex life.

I would hope your lover is not so shallow as to hold you to a measuring tape and see if mother nature endowed you with good "love making and sexual pleasuring" skills. Seriously.

Watch this video with our thoughts on penis size and how much it matters...

Does Penis Size Really Matter?

If you want to really please your partner sexually

Assuming a woman here - same basic concepts would apply for a guy:
- Learn to pleasure her Orally (cunnilingus) - most women won't ask for this, but they tend to LOVE it.
- Learn the basics of female orgasm that most men will never take the time to figure out

As for how to actually enlarge your penis...

You may well be stuck with what mother nature gifted you with. There are lots of pills, creams, and various scary looking battery powered torture devices who promise to increase the size of your penis. Frankly I've always been suspicious of that stuff, in part because most of these approaches will cause more harm than good.

I've never tried any such thing myself, so I'm not telling you to do this. But if you're adamant about trying a method to increase the size of your penis I can point you to a step by step guide from a friend of ours - here.

Again I haven't tried this or any of the other approaches, but since this guide uses a completely natural approach (a surprising but simple approach really) and he has a lot of people who swear by it, I don't have a problem pointing you to it to make up your own mind. Check it out here.

If you do, write back here and let us know how it works for you.

Just remember it's not the size of the penis (although good mutual penis/vagina "fit" is important), it's what you do for your lover, whether your penis is ever involved to begin with. Some women have had their most powerful orgasms ever without a penis involved. :D