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Pleasing your partner is an enjoyable experience. Most strap-ons do not have a dildo on the other end so it is just a mechanical device for penetration. There isn't likely to be any real physical pleasure for the "do-er."

I would assume that there is alot of mental enjoyment in such an act, (or at least I hope so)

It would depend on how the dildo is designed

We have been doing strapon sex for about a year here and there. We kind of bumped into it blindly by just getting more comfortable with each other while we were courting and on up until we were married. I love strapon sex, so does my wife. She likes being in control and I don't have any issues with my sexuality. That never came into play or was even a thought process for me. A woman is doing the act, and it feels amazing...turn off your pre-program of male "roles" and just enjoy it.

I never thought I would be posting this type of thread response, but due to my very sexy and forward thinking wife, I can.

Originally posted by: halo2994
I have seen women using strap on dildos a couple of times and always wonder if they are getting anything out of it.

So i guess my question is; is wearing and using a strap on to penetrate a partner an enjoyable experience?

Our strap on(Bend Over Beginner Kit) has a vibrator in the harness for stimulating her clitoris while she does me and gives me a handjob. We usually cum together. My wife gets so hot when she puts on the strap on. She rubs lube on the dildo and talks dirty about her dick and what she is going to do to me. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on.:D

I think it would depend on a few things...one is the strap on. Many have a little pouch that holds a vibrator, others have actual dildos in them. That can make it feel real good to the person who is doing it. The other is the sexual pleasure of being in charge...this is rather different, but it in itself can turn a woman on a lot.

I personally use a pair of ben wa balls while I use the strap on. They go inside and move about providing good sensations. Couple that with a good rhythm and great mental stimulation and I get very turned on.

Of course, not all women would be turned on by it...

Originally posted by: DaniMarie
I think it would depend on a few things...one is the strap on. Many have a little pouch that holds a vibrator, others have actual dildos in them. That can make it feel real good to the person who is doing it. The other is the sexual pleasure of being in charge...this is rather different, but it in itself can turn a woman on a lot.

I personally use a pair of ben wa balls while I use the strap on. They go inside and move about providing good sensations. Couple that with a good rhythm and great mental stimulation and I get very turned on.

Of course, not all women would be turned on by it...

Using the ben wa balls is interesting. Here is something we do using a Penthouse Vibrating Golden Egg. We use this during intercourse. My wife inserts it in her vagina and then I insert my dick and we fuck with it vibrating inside. The idea of using it during strap on sex is interesting. Next time we have strap on sex I believe that she would like the idea of inserting the vibrating egg in her pussy. Should be fun for her. Will let you know the results.

Wearing a strap-on for me is a very powerful thing. In traditional gender roles, the one doing the penetrating is the one in charge. It has been that way for so many years that it's difficult for some women to overcome and in order to feel more powerful, we have the option of using a strap on. While some do have vibrators at the base in order to stimulate the wearer, it's enough for me wear one without. When I have a male submissive who is willing, I love to use a strap-on.

It's also a great tool for those who would like to experiment with anal sex. As NTCoupleinNY said, "turn off your pre-program of male 'roles' and just enjoy it." Once my submissives do that, they generally have a great time...and so do I.

It is very hot to experience how it feels to be on the dominating end, and my partner was hesitant at first, but after he has reached his first anal orgasm, he has become willing for more!

My lady friend has been pegging me for about a year and we both absolutely love it. She loves the domination and I love the submission and the fantastic climaxes. She loves it so much she went to the sex shop to buy a new, bigger dildo and if you knew her, that would tell you how much she likes it. I just bought a feeldoe for her, so I will let you know how that goes.

As said above many of the better strap-ons have a plug for her as well (I saw one with a removable anal plug for her if she desired). But even without those the psychological enjoyment can be profound for her.

These's a 3 way strapon dildo that give the user anal stimulation, clitorial stimulation and well as the dong for the receipiant.

This is the URL: Two Way Teasing Strap-on - Pabo.com: Sexy Lingery an Erotic Adult Sex toys(vibrators, dildos) from Pabo

This is a British site But you'll still be able to buy as I think they ship worldwide?

You woman will enjoy this, there's alot of strapons that stimulate the woman now. So you should have no problems in that dept.

Regadds.

Tenderkiss.

Click link below.


Two Way Teasing Strap-on - Pabo.com: Sexy Lingery an Erotic Adult Sex toys(vibrators, dildos) from Pabo

It's a UK site. But it gives you the answer.

Regards.

Tenderkiss.

wearing and using a strap is not enjoyable .
physical relationship is best option any other options are not so good.

The position being used can be a factor.

When my wife uses her strap-on on me, she orgasms when she is taking me from behind - thrusting in this position giver her clitoris alot of stimulation from the harness. She can get pretty aggressive in the from behind position, which we both love.

If she's lying on her back and I mount her from above, she doesn't get the stimulation she needs to orgasm. We don't use this position much, because I love the way she gets carried away when she is taking me from behind - and I love hearing her orgasm when she's taking me that way.

Originally posted by: Johnmortin
wearing and using a strap is not enjoyable .
physical relationship is best option any other options are not so good.

Perhaps this is your experience but, clearly, most others here disagree. But your answer is quite difficult to understand as it seems you stopped writing in the middle of a sentence.