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who wants to have sex with you.

Don't go having sex with this random girl that you don't really like. It's better to have sex with some one you care about. To me your a bit young, but you are the decider in that alone when it comes down to it. If you ever do just make sure you use a condom.

Originally posted by: Xero
Don't go having sex with this random girl that you don't really like. It's better to have sex with some one you care about. To me your a bit young, but you are the decider in that alone when it comes down to it. If you ever do just make sure you use a condom.

Yes your right.But I'm kind of scared of it because of my age.And then I am also afraid people will call me a ho or say that I raped her.

That could also be a possibility, just make sure you make good decisions.

Scared because of your age? If your afraid of having sex, or just unsure if you can handle all the pressure that is in it, then I suggest you wait until your ready.

There is nothing wrong with waiting, I'm 19 and still a virgin.

Don't be afraid of what other people will say to your or about you. This is about you, not them. Having sex at 13-14 is definitely young but not unheard of. If you do decide to go through with it, just make sure you do it for the right reasons and of course know what you're doing and getting yourself into.

The other problem is......I DON'T KNOW WHAT A VAGINA LOOK LIKE OR HOW TO EVEN HAVE SEX!

Don't worry about that too much. You'll just learn it as time progresses.

If you have helth class in school, which I hope you do, you'll learn most of it in there.

I don't want to send you anything because 1 your a minor and 2 I don't want to corrupt you.

further thoughts. ...

Girls talk trash just like guys do. She may have just been cutting up with her friends. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion she was serious.

FYI, it's obvious you aren't ready for a sexual relationship.

Originally posted by: Beagle
further thoughts. ...

Girls talk trash just like guys do. She may have just been cutting up with her friends. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion she was serious.

FYI, it's obvious you aren't ready for a sexual relationship.

She doesn't though...wich is weird....because shes a top student...

Originally posted by: bianco123
She doesn't though...wich is weird....because shes a top student...

This isn't about how well she does in school.. Apparently you are not understanding what we're saying which makes me agree with, and also reinforces, Beagle's point.

Originally posted by: YourEternalRest
This isn't about how well she does in school.. Apparently you are not understanding what we're saying which makes me agree with, and also reinforces, Beagle's point.

Ya but what if it was true?you don't know it,I don't know it,And beagle doesn't know that.Thats my point.

I work in an office full of women. The guys who brings the water is a college kid; looks like he walked off a soap opera. They're always talking about what they want to do to him. It's kind of a running joke. None of them will ever act on it.

If you're interested, follow-up with her. What do you have to lose? Just make sure you're clear on what you want. I'm going to bet she was just cutting up with her friends, though.

Originally posted by: Beagle
I work in an office full of women. The guys who brings the water is a college kid; looks like he walked off a soap opera. They're always talking about what they want to do to him. It's kind of a running joke. None of them will ever act on it.

If you're interested, follow-up with her. What do you have to lose? Just make sure you're clear on what you want. I'm going to bet she was just cutting up with her friends, though.

But it wasnt a joke cause they didn't laugh

Originally posted by: Beagle
I work in an office full of women.

Oh geez, I know what that's like. I've been in that situation. I was able to learn a lot about women from that experience.....including some things that I wish I would not have known.

YourEternalRest: I know what you mean. When I first came, they were ultra careful around me. Conversations would stop when I walked into the room. Now, they're desensitized to me and I generally get the play-by-play analysis. As you may have guessed, I grew up in a very traditional household. I honestly didn't know that women talked like that. It's scary to think how naive I was 20 years ago.

Just out of curiosity, how did you get your screen name? I've wondered about that every time I've seen your posts. If you're not comfortable saying, just say "butt out."

Bianco: Now to your issue. I'm not sure what you want here. I can tell from your posts that you're not ready for a sexual relationship. Personally, I think 25 is too young, but that's another story. (Save the hate mail, I'm only messing around.) It sounds like you're interested in her. What is stopping you from following up with her? Just be clear in your own mind what you want. Heck, invite her to get an ice cream cone or whatever you do and see if she's interested. You'll know when you get to talking to her.

Originally posted by: Beagle
YourEternalRest: I know what you mean. When I first came, they were ultra careful around me. Conversations would stop when I walked into the room. Now, they're desensitized to me and I generally get the play-by-play analysis. As you may have guessed, I grew up in a very traditional household. I honestly didn't know that women talked like that. It's scary to think how naive I was 20 years ago.

Just out of curiosity, how did you get your screen name? I've wondered about that every time I've seen your posts. If you're not comfortable saying, just say "butt out."

Bianco: Now to your issue. I'm not sure what you want here. I can tell from your posts that you're not ready for a sexual relationship. Personally, I think 25 is too young, but that's another story. (Save the hate mail, I'm only messing around.) It sounds like you're interested in her. What is stopping you from following up with her? Just be clear in your own mind what you want. Heck, invite her to get an ice cream cone or whatever you do and see if she's interested. You'll know when you get to talking to her.

But I don't even know how to have sex though.

Yes you do. At an unconscious level your body knows how to reproduce. Otherwise, humans wouldn't have lived this long.

Just because you can do a thing, doesn't mean it's a good idea. I think you should just ask this girl to do something (non-sexual) with you; forgetting the conversation for the time being. Just treat it like any other date.

If you really want to know how to have sex, your going to have to learn that in your sex educational class or you can go ask your parents.

Or find another way on your own time.

But like everyone else has stated already, she was probably just kidding. No offense but I don't think you fully understand that much of women currently.

But like Beagle said go ask her out to do something simple (non-sexual) and see if she is really that interested in you. Just be prepared for a yes or no answer, and don't go having sex unless you have protection.

Originally posted by: Xero
If you really want to know how to have sex, your going to have to learn that in your sex educational class or you can go ask your parents.

Or find another way on your own time.

But like everyone else has stated already, she was probably just kidding. No offense but I don't think you fully understand that much of women currently.

But like Beagle said go ask her out to do something simple (non-sexual) and see if she is really that interested in you. Just be prepared for a yes or no answer, and don't go having sex unless you have protection.

none taken.