Ask Dan & Jennifer

Hey guys...

We get so many questions on basic sex ed stuff from teenagers that I thought I would start this thread to compile a list of useful sex ed resources.

Here's what I've found so far. Please feel free to add any that I may not be aware of...

1. Scarleteen | Sex Education For The Real World
   
2. Real Sex Education Facts for Teens. Love, Dating, Sexual Health.
   
3. Sex Education that Works
   
4. Sex, Etc. -- Sex Education by Teens, for Teens
   
5. Teensource: Teen Sex Education & Info on STDs, Teen Pregnancy, Herpes, Chlamydia, HIV, STD Symptoms
   
6. http://teensexuality.student.com/
   
7. Teen Growth, the teen resource for advice, health information, social interaction, and fun.
   
8. Teen Advice - Advice and Community For Teens
   
   
   Please Reply to this post with any other resources that you think will help out teens make intelligent and informed decisions around their sexuality.

Here are some websites with sex education videos:

1. L8R - "This site displays an interactive TV and web drama featuring six multi-ethnic teenage characters through whom teenagers can explore issues around health, sexual relationships, early parenthood and drug and alcohol use"
   
2. PBS "In the Mix: Sex: Everyone's Doin' It...Not!"
   
3. VideoJugg Sex Advice for Teens
   
4. SexualityandU.ca
   

Dont know if its any use but:

Sexperience - The Sex Education Show

Amazon.com: Intimate Connections: David D. Burns: Books

Cognitive therapists use this book for homework, but a research project tried giving it to people on a waiting list at a counseling center and found it worked well on it's own. It is a totally scientific and readable approach. I recommend it to clients and I have received nothing but positive feedback.

Scott

by Dr Yvonne Fulbright, sexologist:

YouTube - Clitoris 101

YouTube - Types of Female Orgasms

YouTube - Penis 101

Why aren't people educated on the female orgasm? Because men have suppressed women and female sexuality since forever. Medieval men used to enslave vaginas in chastity belts. Some men in Africa cut the clitoris out to prevent women from having orgasms (or any sexual pleasure) and some sew up the vagina when they go away on "business trips". The Victorian English even had a sex manual instructing women not to grunt during sex and just what for their husbands to finish. The female orgasm is real and is more powerful than the male orgasm. That's why men have suppressed it. They're afraid that women will cheat on them and leave them for a better lover if women discover their orgasmic potential.

From an evolutionary perspective, the female orgasm is a sexual selection device. When women orgasm during sex, the chances of contraception almost doubles. The female orgasm literally sucks sperm into the uterus. Women are designed to orgasm from the best men and have their babies. Guess what? We're all descended from the same men and women and so the female orgasm has become more elusive to select the cream of the cream. However, the female orgasm has been deciphered and is presented to you in these how to videos.

The most important part of these videos is that you actually DO IT. Don't live inside your head. Don't say to yourself, "I don't need that. That will never work. I know everything there is to know about the female orgasm." Get into the real world and get the RESULTS. I showed these techniques to my friend who was a virgin, he DID them and made his (first) girlfriend cum during his first sexual experience. He's 19 and she's 25 and sexually experienced. When I asked his girlfriend (who is Chilean) what she likes about my friend (he's Californian), she said many things, but one thing that stood out was her description of him: "porno" (she said it with a Chilean accent). I asked my friend what that meant (in spanish) and he said "Exactly what it sounds like." I teach these techniques to all of my friends, but very few actually do them. How do I know? Because the ones that DO can't stop telling me how powerful they felt after making their woman's entire body shake from the orgasm they gave them. I see the sexual confidence in their eyes and their satisfying smiles. When I bring up the techniques with my friends who haven't said anything to me, they try to change the subject. When it cums to sex, they're just pussies. That's why their girlfriends are uptight and bitchy. Little do they know that the No1 reason why husbands divorce wives is because of female infidelity (see Dr Laura Betzig's research) and the No1 reason for female infidelity is because husbands aren't giving their wives orgasms (see Dr David Buss' research).

Anyway, here's some instructional videos on 3 kinds of female orgasm: C spot, G spot and A spot.

YouTube - Female orgasm | C spot | Clitoris| Demonstration with rubber vagina

YouTube - Female orgasm | G spot | Female ejaculation | Squirting | Demonstration with rubber vagina

YouTube - Female orgasm | A spot | Demonsration with rubber vagina

When I was new to college, and basically couldn't get a date with a shotgun, I came across this book in a bookstore and it totally changed my life. It is the most down-to-earth book I have ever read and produced immediate results.

When I became "Single again" in my 40's, I tried some of the PUA stuff, and totally crashed and burned using it with a great girl. This book has real ideas for real people. It doesn't promise that every woman you meet will fall into bed with you and even cautions you about getting sexually involved with them too soon. I've recommended this to plenty of people, with the statement I would buy it from them if they weren't in love with it. I have yet to buy one.

it is Amazon.com: Love Tactics: How to Win the One You Want: Thomas W. McKnight, Robert H. Phillips: Books

Best wishes. I can speak to this with confidence since I wasn't the high-school cool guy. I know what it's like to have to overcome awkwardness in meeting people. Happy dating.

Sexuality and Relationship info you can trust from Planned Parenthood� — teenwire.com

I feel that is an amazing resource!

JtotheV: Great resource. That one is definitely bookmarked for me.

Sensovi Institute has some great FREE resources.

• Our Hot Topics section addresses common sexual concerns
  
  
• The Ask the Doctor page allows you to submit sexual health questions
  
  
• We offer a free trial of our E-Sensual Woman program (for orgasm difficulties, low arousal/desire, painful intercourse, or enhancement)
  
  
• However, I think our best FREE sex ed resource is our Life Test. It is an online assessment, and it asks questions about your daily life, your relationships, and sex. We score it and email you a free report with our feedback and recommendations. You can also get a FREE E-Coaching call or email from me. I can talk with you in more detail about the results and about what help (at Sensovi or elsewhere) can benefit you and help you reach your goals.
  

Thanks Dan and Jennifer for your great sex-positive presence on the web, and for connecting people to the resources they need!

Becky Knight MPH
Director of Education and Programs
Sensovi Institute

statistics about normal penis sizes:

Human penis size - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Originally posted by: Smucky
statistics about normal penis sizes:

Human penis size - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Which race did they measure?

Here's a video by Ducky Doolittle:

Here are some instructional videos on cunnilingus:

Kivin method


Clit blowjob


Clit circles

Here's the true story about how a mother cured her college daughter's broken heart in 30 minutes with "emotional freedom techniques:

EFT for a Broken Heart

Here's a video demonstrating EFT:



Here's a free ebook explaining the principles, basic techniques and numerous applications of EFT:

EFT Training - Your Free EFT Get Started Package

EFT means "emotional freedom techniques". It is acupuncture without the needles. It is based on the premise that emotional problems are trapped energy in particular parts of the body and the trapped energy can be released by tapping certain pressure points while verbalising the problem. EFT also has a premise that the cause of most physical problems and disease (including erectile dysfunction) is the result of emotional stress.

Here's a video demonstration:


And here's an article describing how EFT cured erectile dysfunction:
Ten minutes of EFT restores healthy performance in the bedroom - eliminates the need for the little

Hallo!

I have a found a very good officil source of information on HPV. I am happy to share it here.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/common-cl...cianBro-fp.pdf

I went to talk to my gyn today and here is what he told me. For some strange reason, these are things I did not find on any place online or any official source!:

- There are 134 types of HPV. For gynecologist point of view only 4 types are interesting (means one that cause real helth problems). From these 4 types, 2 of them are treated with medicaments and 2 are treated with surgery.

- From the 134 types of HPV only 2 types do not pass by time (one has them for a lifetime). These two types are those which may cause cancer. The doctor claims that in most cases this cancer develops only after 20 years of having HPV, so it is not really something to stress about right now. However he says that it is important for all women to have yearly gynecological exam, in order to be sure that HPV does not cause cancer. He told me to pay attention if I my partner have change in discharge (morning discharge he siad for men), and if we do then we need to see a gyn/urologist.

- My HPV test will be repeted in half a year. If I still have HPV, then I will have a test to identify which type is it. Depending on results, I will need to go to pap exmas every 6-12 month.

- As for sex life he says that HPV is over reacted nowdays, that I should have sex life as I normally have and only make sure that I have regular exams and pay attention if there is any change in vagial discharge (in order to sieve cancer)

Hope this helps someone.

Dr Joy Davidson explains squirting (female ejaculation):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSHcav6_hAs

This video is less than 2 minutes and shows you how to give a woman an A spot orgasm.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtQGUI_RlzA

This might help someone (helped me!)

Ejaculation Trainer

The 2 core exercises for penis enlargement are stretching and squeezing. Stretching focuses on the penis ligament and increases length. Squeezing focuses on forcing more blood into the penis and increases girth. The best supplement for penis enlargement are choline and arginine. Choline lengthens the penis and arginine increases girth.

Watch this video: How to Enlarge the Penis | Howcast.com

This guy gives great advice on PE.

Premature Ejaculation

I've found this site really helpful. Shares information on different types treatments for premature ejaculation.

Natural Premature Ejaculation Treatments

This guy gives a woman an orgasm through hypnosis:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jN_8AvLXIuE

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