Ok here my story:
I meet this guy Jeff 4 years ago. I was 16 and he was 26 so of course we never did anything. We talked on the phone a lot, just as friends. He knew I liked him, but like i said before i was young at the time. Everytime i talked to him on the phone i always ended up changing my number or moving away. The last time i did it, he told me if that happend again he'd never talk to me again and of course i moved away with my boyfriend (Colby) at the time and ignored jeff again. About 2 in a half months ago i asked my friend for this guys jeff number, sence i was now officially single and legal. I called him up and we talked for a long time, that same weekend he invited me out to his sister house for a party, we ended up staying the night and sleeping together. The next time he spoke he mentioned something about a girlfriend and said he told me before, he even said that we had a whole conversation about her with me. I guess i somehow blocked that one out. I asked where she was, he said "in jail". OK SO point is me and him continued seeing each other A LOT. one night we were talking and he said really his only intentions were to sleep with me, but somehow its gone further And said that i made him really happy. and of course we've fallen very hard. like smack down in the pavement hard for each other. OK PROBLEM:He has a daughter, she's 6. Jeff's current girlfriend is the only real mother frigure shes ever had. So i get this. his girlfriend came home from jail 3 weeks ago. he's still with her and told me he was going to stay with her. After a week of her being home he calls me one night @ 1:00 in the morning, tells me he loves me and wants to be with me and not her. its been like this for 2 weeks now. Friday we got a room together. IT Was so perfect. He told me why he loved me, he confessed all his love for me. and said help him he doesnt want to be with his girlfriend. BUT HIS DAUGHTER IS HAPPY. and he doesn't want to look like an asshole or be selfish with his daughter. HELP...my love for him is crazy..to the point i honestly truely never want to be with anyone eles: i even got a tattoo on my leg saying: "Our love
Was true
Our love
Was real
&
You let
It all
Fall threw"
I told him that the tattoo could be in a good way and a bad way, right now its bad cause i dont have him
It will be good when i have all of him ___because " Fall through" can be positive or negative, and i spelt threw wrong on purpose for the simple reason to through it all off. NE who I need help, advice somethingg.....
we spent another night together, and he told me he wanted to marry me, he didnt ask or purpose, he was just saying, i need advice on what to do, what to tell him..cause i want to be with him, but i'm not going to stay on the side 4 ever, and its not like he doesnt already know that, but like i said before he doesnt want to look like an asshole to his daughter, who is his world....please help...I love this man very much and he is my world
CURRENT GIRLFRIEND IS NOT CHILDS MOTHER, NOR ARE THEY Married, this girlfriend like i said is just a real close mother figure..i understand y that makes it complicated thatas the reasons i'm asking...but shes nothing blood or law related