hi everyone,
my girlfriend and i have an issue (we are both 18 and virgins). we've been close to having sex a few times, but when we do get that close, things start to cool off a little bit. her and i have talked it over and here's the problem, shes afraid that it will hurt a lot because my penis is about 8" long and about 5" around. the reason shes afraid is because when i would finger her, i would only use one finger and she'd be fine, but when i switched to two fingers she would instantly want to stop because of pain. she's even told me that she noticed bleeding. and that just worries me because i don't want to hurt her, i want to please her.
what i wanna know is, what can we do to work our way up to sex?
because i love her with all my heart and i would feel horrible if i caused that much pain to her. i want our first time to be meaningful. any tips or advice would mean a lot to us.
thanks.