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Okay so husband and I are trying to work on our relationship gingerly. Other night he said he's going to a friends house and whole family was invided but he 's going alone. He needs some time to himself. Ok thats fine. We had a really rough week and he is trying to make friends out here where we moved. When he was leaving he told me "and don't worry, I'm not doing anything wrong, just going to friends house. I replied " yeak ok, but you know I don't trust it. He said " don't even start please". Make long story a little short, he didn't answer phone when I called on his way home. He then called me back about an hour later and said sorry I had the music too loud, and almost home (his ride was about 1 1/2 hours). The next day I was eating my lunch he had left over and the paper the pizza was on said The Meadows. So I went home and looked it up. It was only a casino and horse racing. So I was releaved but still a little mad why too he still lied to me if nothing big to hide . I have dealed with him doing this for years and I have a reason not to trust him. Which this was 1 thing that lead me to cheating on him once, which he is having a hard time dealing with right now. He wants to work things out but every time I'm upset about something he'll ask me whats wrong. Then he'll start thinking about what I have done to him (6 years ago) make me feel like I should start complaining about what has happened because look at what I have done. You have done worse to me and your going to be mad at what I have done (like I should get my priorities striaght.
Sorry a little side tracked. Well the next day, today I went to go check his e-mail, thats another story, He changed the pass word on me. How should I ask him about this without him turning it on me, That I'm being nosey. I don't care what he checks on me because I have nothing to hide from him plus I'm opened so he can see I really love him and only him, so he can trust me again. He has been always to himself but I feel if he wants me to beleive him, he needs to stop hiding stupid little stuff. What am I to think I told him. It always seam to still be my fault. is he mad at me? Or is he e-mail to friends what he doesn't want me to know again. Like maybe what he did the other night. He so wierd though because he so caring, gentle, everthings good BUT tellng the truth with stupid little things like this. The only problem I ever had about him going out is him maybe going to a strip club. A few times there were signs he had gone but he would deny it until I totaly had proof. This didn't happen often but once in a blue moon. This time there's no sign of that.
Should I be wondering why he changed his pass word knowing I used to check it? Do you think he's hiding something?
Sorry a little side tracked. Well the next day, today I went to go check his e-mail, thats another story, He changed the pass word on me. How should I ask him about this without him turning it on me, That I'm being nosey. I don't care what he checks on me because I have nothing to hide from him plus I'm opened so he can see I really love him and only him, so he can trust me again. He has been always to himself but I feel if he wants me to beleive him, he needs to stop hiding stupid little stuff. What am I to think I told him. It always seam to still be my fault. is he mad at me? Or is he e-mail to friends what he doesn't want me to know again. Like maybe what he did the other night. He so wierd though because he so caring, gentle, everthings good BUT tellng the truth with stupid little things like this. The only problem I ever had about him going out is him maybe going to a strip club. A few times there were signs he had gone but he would deny it until I totaly had proof. This didn't happen often but once in a blue moon. This time there's no sign of that.
Should I be wondering why he changed his pass word knowing I used to check it? Do you think he's hiding something?
