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I am describing a situation that is really very challenging to handle that. I am really in need of advice how should I proceed and tell her what I feel for her?
Situation:
It is around three people. Me, a girl whom I like a lot and girl's ex boy friend.
The girl had a break-up with her boy friend 5 months back.
Why Break-up happened?
Since we all are from India and in India some orthodox people gives preference to the community. The girl and her boy friend does not belong to same community. The guy is now engaged with a girl who belongs to same community leaving her girl friend.
That is a setback for a girl. She is unable to handle that. Now she has controlled herself to some extent but not completely. Now what she has decided is that she is not going to marry in her entire life. She knows very well that the guy is not going to come back for her. The girl is too emotional.
A month ago I met this girl. We became good friends and now she considers me her one of best friends. In fact I am the only guy with whom she has discussed this matter fully. She has told her everything about her relationship with her ex. Such as what they used to do, what not, how they used to, infact everything (except few things-i guess they had physial relation too - but she's not comfortable discussing that with me).
Now, I liked this girl. I have feelings for her. I want to marry her.I want to express that but I cant because she has not forget her past completely and she dont want to do that. I have tried many times to convince her that one has to move on with life and so on. But that hardly matters.
One more constraint is I am in US and she is in India. We communicate by phone and e-mails.
Please guide me what shall I do?
How to convince that girl?
When shall I propose her?
Will she never going to marry?Can she take this step?
Help!! Help!!
I am describing a situation that is really very challenging to handle that. I am really in need of advice how should I proceed and tell her what I feel for her?
Situation:
It is around three people. Me, a girl whom I like a lot and girl's ex boy friend.
The girl had a break-up with her boy friend 5 months back.
Why Break-up happened?
Since we all are from India and in India some orthodox people gives preference to the community. The girl and her boy friend does not belong to same community. The guy is now engaged with a girl who belongs to same community leaving her girl friend.
That is a setback for a girl. She is unable to handle that. Now she has controlled herself to some extent but not completely. Now what she has decided is that she is not going to marry in her entire life. She knows very well that the guy is not going to come back for her. The girl is too emotional.
A month ago I met this girl. We became good friends and now she considers me her one of best friends. In fact I am the only guy with whom she has discussed this matter fully. She has told her everything about her relationship with her ex. Such as what they used to do, what not, how they used to, infact everything (except few things-i guess they had physial relation too - but she's not comfortable discussing that with me).
Now, I liked this girl. I have feelings for her. I want to marry her.I want to express that but I cant because she has not forget her past completely and she dont want to do that. I have tried many times to convince her that one has to move on with life and so on. But that hardly matters.
One more constraint is I am in US and she is in India. We communicate by phone and e-mails.
Please guide me what shall I do?
How to convince that girl?
When shall I propose her?
Will she never going to marry?Can she take this step?
Help!! Help!!
