Hi Brian, good to hear from you!
Hmmm... you guys are in an interesting situation indeed. I've had the feeling for a while that you're putting your life in a sort of holding pattern because of the pregnancy... even though you two aren't really "together".
So I think that's the first question... are you two "together" or just there as friends to support one another through the pregnancy?
Yeah, I remember you wanted the divorce first, but then Jen said she definitely wanted to move on and be with her new guy (who she'd only just met a couple weeks previously).
So are you two perhaps considering getting back together? because if Jen is seeing another guy then I don't see why you can't see someone too.
We all have "complicated" situations... that's just life.
Dan