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My girlfriend and I are always fighting(arguing). Its more that we could be in a really happy mood, and then one of us says something that gets the other upset.
Even the smallest things, like when she tries to joke I get offensive. Or just something stupid. Then we get all worked up and start screaming, and then one of us will threaten that we would break up with the other (even though we would regret it severely). Then we would say things we don't mean and then it upsets us even more.
We both think i may be bi-polar but we aren't sure. And we don't know how to get tested without spending money.(if it costs money)
We broke up once and it was the worst thing thats happened to the both of us. We got back together within a week and a half. But now we are still having problems. I came here to get help so I don't lose the girl of my dreams. I love her a lot and she loves me but she would break up with me again if this continues, and I don't blame her but I would much rather it not come down to that. I NEED help. I want this relationship to last. What should I do to make this work out? What should her and I do to make this work out?
P.S. Other than the arguing everything is fine. We get along just fine. We would be romantic maybe go out for something to eat or just to a park or just to one of our houses to rest and cuddle. We usually argue on the phone(speaking or texts) and occasionally when we are together.
Even the smallest things, like when she tries to joke I get offensive. Or just something stupid. Then we get all worked up and start screaming, and then one of us will threaten that we would break up with the other (even though we would regret it severely). Then we would say things we don't mean and then it upsets us even more.
We both think i may be bi-polar but we aren't sure. And we don't know how to get tested without spending money.(if it costs money)
We broke up once and it was the worst thing thats happened to the both of us. We got back together within a week and a half. But now we are still having problems. I came here to get help so I don't lose the girl of my dreams. I love her a lot and she loves me but she would break up with me again if this continues, and I don't blame her but I would much rather it not come down to that. I NEED help. I want this relationship to last. What should I do to make this work out? What should her and I do to make this work out?
P.S. Other than the arguing everything is fine. We get along just fine. We would be romantic maybe go out for something to eat or just to a park or just to one of our houses to rest and cuddle. We usually argue on the phone(speaking or texts) and occasionally when we are together.
