Ask Dan & Jennifer

personally, i would choose talking to her while having sex knowing which position she enjoys the most & least. it's okay to communicate while having sex. Sex shouldn't be too serious ;p

yeah , right.
but I'm afraid that maybe talking on the firts time may spoil everything.

well, about the positions, anybody else has any tip ?

thanks people :D

yeah , right.
but I'm afraid that maybe talking on the firts time may spoil everything.

well, about the positions, anybody else has any tip ?

thanks people :D

From a girls perspective I would have to say missonary, With you on top. Thats how I did it and I didnt have any pain at all. However every girl is different.

Every women is different in her experiance, some women don't feel any pain, for some its a whole lot. I would sugest missonary as well, but i will make an aditional suggestion... lots of foreplay for her, and go slow slow slow, that way if it is painful you can stop... one thing i hear a lot is guys just assuming it is suppose to hurt and the girl just has to deal with it. he gets so exited and she is very freaked out... that is not a good experiance. My first time i experianced the almost make you pass out pain but my partner was not pushing me and stopped right away. we slowly spent a week working to make it better before we really had "sex". You just have to take it slow and easy and get feedback from her.

...first of all..I think its sweet of you not wanting to hurt your partner. I personally haven't had anal sex with my partner because we are taking the necessary cautions on doing so. But we have started somewhat and because he doesn't want to hurt me he suggested using his finger to stimulate me on my clit and my anus at the same time. That way I'm learning to breathe as he enters my anus with his fingers but I'm also distracted by the pleasure he's giving me by stimulating my clit. With a few..um..practices...I'm positive that our first time will be pleasurable for both my partner and I. You can also use lube that is desensitizing for anal sex which will help with any pain. Go slow and communicate on how she feels and what she likes. Remind her to breathe!:)