In most of my previous relationships I used to use condoms. However I got engaged a few months ago, so my girlfriend and I decided not to use condoms anymore. There was when the problem began because when I don’t use condoms to have sex I finish very soon:eek: and she gets angry:mad:, so sometimes I have to use condoms to make it longer. If you can give me some advice, thanks a lot
To the first issue, the big issue here: Does she get upset because you come too quickly, or is it because you come right away and suddenly playtime is over - even though she's still aroused and hasn't experienced her orgasm.
Be honest, this is crucial - is that accurate? That's the case in most relationships, and why most couple's sex lives spiral downhill the longer they are together.
Women do not enjoy being left unsatisfied, and the more it happens the less they look forward to having sex, until it just stops.
One very common solution is the "she comes first" approach, since women take more work to reach orgasm than most men. The idea is to make sure she has an orgasm before you do; thats a recipe for a very happy sex life.
So is there a solution to premature ejaculation, i.e. the man coming too early?
Sure, there are many. Check out these articles on premature ejaculation, controlling when you orgasm:
