When is a good time to break up??

in Love and Relationships » Break Up and Divorce • 2 years ago

I'm really tired of the fighting with my boyfriend.. he picks on every littlke detail of my sentences cause he wants me to be perfect..
we were playing a beta mmo (karos) and i wanted to log off because he was starting to argue and get mad at me.. i recorded the fight halway through it but he yells for no reason..
he makes me scared and when he yells its hard for me to respond.. I just forget how to make sentences and they come out weird or something or I say something else..

I'm going to his brother's wedding tomorrow and I can't get out of it because his brother apparently payed for the food for all the guests.. I'm worried that if i dump him right after the wedding it'll seem like I used his family for money or something..

But I'm scared to go because I know we WILL fight at the wedding and make everyone feel awkward..

I am willing to share the fight.. is there a way i can post it without putting it on youtube or something??

I know I'm in an abusive relationship.. But I'm also afraid of being alone and finding another guy just like him..

thank you for the help :)

Replies(3)

Xero

Re: When is a good time to break up??

2 years ago

If you know it's abusive then you need to get out now. There is no reason to stay and it will become more dangerous as you wait. I suggest maybe waiting after the wedding a few days if that is possiable for you.

Then telling him politely that he needs to stop or its over. Which you probably need to end it. He's not going to be very happy, so I suggest if you need to leave immediately then leave. Have a ride ready or something I'm sure if your parents are able they would wait for you to get to the car. If it was my son or daughter I would seriously wait for them.

For the wedding I would just go and be polite, if he starts yelling don't argue back and just make him look bad in front of everyone. I doubt he will start anything and if he does hes not too bright.

kiwi_danj..

Re: When is a good time to break up??

2 years ago

I went to the wedding.. Everyone was nice and I had fun.. The boyfriend got drunk so I had to ask his mom to pick me up.. (She wasn't attending the wedding we were staying at a motel)

Luckily there were no arguments really.. He kept telling everyone I'm really shy and to engage me otherwise I won't speak (which wasn't true but I ignored it and talked to everyone).. I am a shy person but everyone was nice so I was comfortable talking with people :)

I think I'll wait a few days :)

Thank you

Xero

Re: When is a good time to break up??

2 years ago

Remember to use your friends as support in this dire time. We are also here to listen to what you have to say. If you really need anything just ask, even if it's just me. I will listen to what you need to get out to someone else.

Good Luck.