Where to find playmates

in Sex and Intimacy » Swingers and Threesomes • 2 years ago

Greetings!

My question is actually made up of several little related ones. I'm a single, bisexual gal in my early 20's interested in a threesome. Basically I want to find one (or different) couples to have threesomes with. For some reason, I find this more appealing than sex with just one other person. Despite this desire, I have no idea where I could meet the right people. It feels really weird browsing profiles online trying to decide if I want to meet a strange couple that may or may not be who they say they are. Besides that, I find it rather obnoxious how many couples simply post gratuitous pictures of nothing but straight up genitalia. Not that I have a problem with genitalia, it just seems a little classless to present yourself in such a way. I want to find a real, clean, fun couple to be their play thing. I would really like to safely get to know them casually, not just arrange a sexathon online. Any suggestions?

Replies(3)

Beagle

Re: Where to find playmates

2 years ago

Beth: Have you considered attending a Lifestyles club? NASCA International

overknight

Clubs and Social Events

2 years ago

Beth,

I agree with Beagle, you need to find an event that will allow you to socialize more. Trust me, there are plenty of couples looking for that stray single gal. Just be careful with where you go.

Make sure it's a event that has many people attending. This is more for your protection. Smaller events that are not set in a public venue may not be safe enough for a single woman. See number 2.
Make sure it's a private event. Contradicts number one, but you want to be sure that the event you are going to is going to be private and not a truly public space. From my experience there are places that have been targeted by local authorities for lewd behavior. You don't want to be trapped in that situation.

Many sites like AFF, have party and social listings for your area. Research those and pick a few people that are on them. Ask questions and maybe even meet there,

Good Luck!
OverKnight

danimarie

Re: Where to find playmates

2 years ago

I would definitely agree that a party or club is going to be a good place for you to socialize and meet a couple you like. Do know that there are people online looking who aren't looking for a one night stand and really would like to get to know you before doing anything (I know...we are one of them!). If you do go to AFF you can often find meet and greet situations. These are usually at local bars. You can go there, meet people who are looking, and just chit chat. It is a low stress no commitment way to meet people and figure out who and where you want to go with it.