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My bf and I have been together almost 3 years, but the entire time we've been together we've had problems in bed. He has a very difficult time getting off.
He thinks it is because I'm overweight, and it makes me not tight enough. I think he has some nerve damage.
I AM overweight (not enormous, but some), but he is attracted to me, and he has no trouble getting aroused. However, I've never had any complaints before, even when dating guys with smaller penises, or when I was heavier than I am now.
He says he's never had this problem before, but he has told me in the past that he finds it impossible to get off with a condom on. He also has trouble unless I'm somewhat dry, which is uncomfortable for me.
I've never been able to get him off with oral sex, and he seems to enjoy manual stimulation more...again, sort of dry.
His preference for dry sex goes against everything I've known about sex, and it makes me think he has some nerve damage, so he needs more friction than most people.
My question is: could me being overweight make my vagina not tight enough? Or does it sound like he has nerve damage?
He thinks it is because I'm overweight, and it makes me not tight enough. I think he has some nerve damage.
I AM overweight (not enormous, but some), but he is attracted to me, and he has no trouble getting aroused. However, I've never had any complaints before, even when dating guys with smaller penises, or when I was heavier than I am now.
He says he's never had this problem before, but he has told me in the past that he finds it impossible to get off with a condom on. He also has trouble unless I'm somewhat dry, which is uncomfortable for me.
I've never been able to get him off with oral sex, and he seems to enjoy manual stimulation more...again, sort of dry.
His preference for dry sex goes against everything I've known about sex, and it makes me think he has some nerve damage, so he needs more friction than most people.
My question is: could me being overweight make my vagina not tight enough? Or does it sound like he has nerve damage?
