Ask Dan & Jennifer

Well, the short answer is that "that's how it used to be" in Western society until just very recently.

Fact is it's really not like that anymore, but there are still differences between how men and women are treated.

Societal differences and differing expectations will always exist, but we're seeing much more equality as far as basic "rights" between men and women.

And people of different skin colors and sexual orientation as well for that matter. We're all evolving as a society, albeit not as fast as we'd like to see sometimes. :-)

I can tell from your post that you're very angry. In reality, discrimination is becoming much less problematic. Most of my bosses have been women.

I know that the statistics say that men make more. I know you're not going to like this, but I have some experience in statistics. If you select men and women with equal years experience AND who work equal hours per week, the difference between salaries drops to under 10%. You can research that .

From a man's perspective, the only one limiting your power is you. Guys are going to hit on you. Your power is the power to say yes or no. You can choose to be sexually passive or aggressive. You can choose to adopt a traditional female role or a more modern assertive role. I personally don't want a doormat.

No one can change your life except you. If you're not happy with your level of power, then learn to assert yourself. If people are telling you you can't , you may need to take a close look at whether you're associating with people who build you up or tear you down. The women in my life are very assertive and will quickly go for what they want. You may need to adopt some of these women as role models.

Yo ;p .. im going to make this short and simple .. not all men do it jst to let you kno .. but the men who do it might view you as " Weak " or their just Perves and DESPERATE that cant get a girl even if their mothers life depended on it .. their is no way on stopping this behavior .. im a man and i see woman everyday being followed by men and their screaming ... you dont call them " Men " ... Their weak .. My advise to you is to ignore what they say .. because if you care what they say than you will always fight with ppl everytime and everywhere .. soo let them talk .. but if they touch you Kick them on the groin .. you hear ? Kick them on the groin or hit them on the chin really hard .. Go to self defence lessons ..

Yours sincerly : The Champ :)

And who said men are allowed to be hiting on you, just black them, you do not have to be hit on ,unless you want it. Be careful what kind of signals you give to men. They are animals after all. Just like aley cats. always on the prwel even if there married to you for 15 years or more.

Hey .. i dont mean no disrespect or anything but how are us men animals ? Girls are the ones who if they find sumone better than their spouse their leave him for the other better guy ... and dont say im wrong cuz ive watched my frndz and yours truly be in that position ... girls just want to have fun .. FUN is key to a womens heart .. FUN is The way for her heart .. You want sex ? Than be Fun ;p .. their was also a song called " Girls just want to have fun " its a really old song but it makes sense ..

I give up trying to talk to Thechamp, he just does not get it. HOPLESS, totaly HOPLESS.

Yeah ok thanks :)

From what i read from your question you very upset. You are right in what you are saying. Men have always been if the front runner of everything. They are in need of a learning curve. From where i have been, women are in control. Have admit working for a women and seeing whats going on around them. Do not piss them off. Most women want people to work for them with out question. Do there job and bring question when needed.

What i have seen are the men are from the past and not willing to give up there thorne. The time is now and women are leading the pac. So men better get there shit into one sock and start learning. As for men hitting on you from the web site. Give them hell. Black ball them for there stupidness. (Think thats a word) They do not have the right ask such question with out your consent.

There are many internet users without maners. Men and women. They don't say hello in chat. Rather than ask questions, they demand answers. They don't answer anything. They'll even reply off topic or negatively to an honest question. (we call those trolls)
If you're in a chat sooner or later somebody will waltz in thinking it's short for "chat-you-up". I'll bet you're in open chats or sexual issue sites when this happens most. Even though guys do it more, girls troll for guys too. I've been in the middle of a sci-fi chat and had had a woman ask me if I shave my pubes.

The Riftalope
Gen. 3:11

I'm on the internet right now..........men keep hitting on me and I'm sick of it. One of these men asked me my bra size. Why does it matter????

Is it occuring ON THIS SITE, or another?
Just report it to the moderators or admin.
I'm sure they'd help you out.

How men get payed more at work??

Lots of people get paid more than they should. This varies per task, per gender, per experience. It's a very poorly lain out marketplace. It really makes not much sense. There are many factors involved. If you KNOW and can PROVE it's discrimination, I recommend suing.

How men can do anything to women and it's told for women to just sit back and let them do whatever.

It's just because of human behaviour. Some never learned HOW to communicate effectively, or in the "same language" as what you speak. While you find it appauling, other women will find it attractive and accept and revel in the attention. It's all personal preference. If you don't like something, nobody says you have to allow it to continue. There are always options and alternatives, just look for them.