Why is it that women just expects guys to "know" stuff? Like if they have a problem, why do they act all subtle about it and bottle it up rather than just being direct and going up to they guy and telling him?
Case in point: This girl was telling me how this guy she's known for 7 years has had some real feelings for her and how she doesn't like it and said "I've been dropping hints trying to tell him I don't like him like that" and i was like "Don't do that, guys don't interpret girl hints well, you need to be direct in telling him, so long as he thinks there's still a chance, however small with you, he'll keep trying to do stuff for you". And he like offered to clean her car, always asked her out to do things, etc.
She declines all the help he offers and says she tries to stay in groups when he's around.
He had sent her a long text message stating how he felt and when I told her to just tell him under no uncertain terms she wasn't interested in him that way she said she would send him a text back telling him.
I just don't understand why it takes so long for them to do it. It's like girls, we don't like or get your hints, if you have something to tell us just go up and tell us!