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First of all I just want to say that I love watching the DanandJenn videos on Youtube, they always give such great advice. :)
My question has to do with the first guy I've ever dated. We met at a club and felt instantly attracted to each other. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. He soon called back to set up a date. I was super excited and we went out for dinner. But, he totally treated me like a friend, he didn't seem attracted to me anymore! :(
I was crushed, but tried to play along and be polite, but really all I wanted to do was leave. I felt it was very rude of him to show such great interest at the club (we kissed each other on the cheek) and then totally blow me off on the date. He was effectively sending me mixed signals.
After it was over I decided to just forget about him, but he called back to apologize and said that he was nervous and that's why he had behaved akwardly, and wanted us to meet again. I felt hopeful and agreed to meet for a night of dancing at a a different club, but it turns out he was two hours late! :mad:
I was angry and left soon after he arrived, before I even saw him. (I had to call to find out where he was). The next day he called and I let him know I was not going to put up with his fickle behavior and just leave it at that. That was almost eight months ago.
Now, even today, I received two text messages from him asking me how I'm doing, and he has been sending them frequently and persistently even though I NEVER reply. He asked if we could be friends, and I said no, I wanted a romantic relationship NOT a friendship.
I absolutely want nothing to do with him, that's for sure. But, why is he still bugging me? I don't understand his thinking at all, perhaps someone can help me with this. :confused:
If he really wanted me he should have let me know!!!
My question has to do with the first guy I've ever dated. We met at a club and felt instantly attracted to each other. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. He soon called back to set up a date. I was super excited and we went out for dinner. But, he totally treated me like a friend, he didn't seem attracted to me anymore! :(
I was crushed, but tried to play along and be polite, but really all I wanted to do was leave. I felt it was very rude of him to show such great interest at the club (we kissed each other on the cheek) and then totally blow me off on the date. He was effectively sending me mixed signals.
After it was over I decided to just forget about him, but he called back to apologize and said that he was nervous and that's why he had behaved akwardly, and wanted us to meet again. I felt hopeful and agreed to meet for a night of dancing at a a different club, but it turns out he was two hours late! :mad:
I was angry and left soon after he arrived, before I even saw him. (I had to call to find out where he was). The next day he called and I let him know I was not going to put up with his fickle behavior and just leave it at that. That was almost eight months ago.
Now, even today, I received two text messages from him asking me how I'm doing, and he has been sending them frequently and persistently even though I NEVER reply. He asked if we could be friends, and I said no, I wanted a romantic relationship NOT a friendship.
I absolutely want nothing to do with him, that's for sure. But, why is he still bugging me? I don't understand his thinking at all, perhaps someone can help me with this. :confused:
If he really wanted me he should have let me know!!!
