Ask Dan & Jennifer

If you've found something you like, why must you question it?

Eclipse,

I'd be guessing, but it would seem you would have a personal fetish. Don't get me wrong, it sounds great! The real reason you might enjoy this is because it is VISUAL. Every porno has a "money shot". You are no different. You have reached the point of climax and want to finish with a BANG! :D

I would say it is normal enjoyment. Just keep in mind your partners wishes and you should be fine.

Good Luck!

OverKnight ;)

There is nothing wrong with liking the sight of cum on your wife's body. As the header states we are visusal creatures and enjoy seeing and experiencing things. My husband and I talked about this mainly because of his reaction to the first time he came on me. The feeling he said he has was like marking his territory.

It may sound animalistic in nature but the idea behind it is very similar. Your wife excites you and cum on and in her. Seeing the cum on her is just a reminder that she is your wife and you enjoy each others bodies.

Like Overknight mentioned with porn. Seeing cum on a woman can be very sexy. I mean after all we all know the real purpose of a pearl necklace on a woman.

Perhaps it's "marking your spot" like when a male dog pisses on a tree. I never understood it, myself. It certainly feels better to me to not withdraw when I'm ejaculating. Yes, I've seen it in porno but I always wonder why men seem to like it.

Originally posted by: scarbowl
Perhaps it's "marking your spot" like when a male dog pisses on a tree.

Really? I don't think so. Not only do i think you're wrong, but that is a very rude way of putting it.

Originally posted by: Sam in New York
Really? I don't think so. Not only do i think you're wrong, but that is a very rude way of putting it.

OK guys - Sam, I appreciate the fact that you found Scarbowl's perspective offensive, but it was not intentional offense directed at any of us, I believe he was merely voicing his honest perspective.

That, and I believe psychologically there's definitely a connection to "marking one's territory". We are after all animals too, albeit with thumbs and also with the unique propensity for violence and destruction unimaginable in the rest of the animal kingdom, but we won't go there. :)

Jennifer and I very much value you both as very helpful members of our community. So please let's take a breath all around and respect one another, even if we don't agree. :)

Thanks guys!
Dan

I love to do this...and my wife likes to watch it happen. Why? probably because it is something different than the way we usually have sex. And by her getting involved and "helping" me do it...it is even hotter! Enjoy!