My wife of 25 years, we're both in our early 40's, has recently begun to open up sexually, more than ever before. I've always had a healthy appetite for sex and she has always been great in bed but now she's really opening up. We are enjoying adult films now, from time to time, and they really get things hot for both of us. Sex is more intense now than ever.
In the heat of passion, she has also shared with me her hottest fantasy; and that is for her to watch another woman give me a blowjob. I'll be honest, the thought of that sends me through the roof! We talk about it during sex and it really fires things up for both of us. She says that she just wants to watch and then, when I'm done, it would be over.
However, she has learned that a good friend of hers has done the exact same thing. She and her husband picked a girl up at a bar and went back to the hotel with her. She gave the husband a blowjob and then the wife went down on the girl. My wife was telling me the story and we both got really worked up and have talked about it alot since then. I think now, if it were to happen, she would do more than watch.
We are going away for the weekend at the end of this month, without any kids, and we "joke" about picking up partner for the night. We would only ever do it if we were out of town and would never see the person again. We have agreed on that. But my question is, how would we ever begin to approach a woman at a bar about something like this? Or is there another way that anyone can tell us about to help us out? We are both on the edge about this and a drink or 2 would really help us lose our inhibitions and go for it. Any advice would really be appreciated.