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Wow what an interesting question. Okay so the first thing I should mention is that until very recently I identified as being lesbian. I met a man about three months ago and as I said in my little intro blurb, my head is still spinning. Dan's reply to me and I think this is such a valid statement isn't "people are bisexual" or "hetrosexual" or "homosexual". People are just sexual. Now to your husband, to answer his questions in his own mind, what parts of this woman ( someone that has gone that far whether she's had the "big surgery" or not deserves to be called a woman ) what parts of this woman does he find attractive? Is it her personality, her humor, her intelligence, or her compassion? Physically is he interested more in her face, her shoulders, her breasts? Or is he looking at her crotch and wondering about her penis? These are the sorts of things he should ask himself I think. Has he ever thought about other men in a sexual way? If the answer is no and he is feeling attraction for her the same way he would for any other woman, then the answer in my mind is that he's still heterosexual, he's responding to her based on her feminine presentation and cues, not on anything else.
And the correct term is whatever she calls herself, if she says shemale it's fine, though many prefer to use this term for adult entertainers, the more common term would be pre-operative transsexual, or transsexual woman, whatever ( as your friend ) makes her the most comfortable. The most important thing though is open communication, in this case your husband communicating with himself about what he really wants, is really curious about, etc.
Good Luck, I'll be curious to see where this leads,
"GO COMMUNICATION!!"
Rachael

Originally posted by: Rachael559
Wow what an interesting question. Okay so the first thing I should mention is that until very recently I identified as being lesbian. I met a man about three months ago and as I said in my little intro blurb, my head is still spinning. Dan's reply to me and I think this is such a valid statement isn't "people are bisexual" or "hetrosexual" or "homosexual". People are just sexual. Now to your husband, to answer his questions in his own mind, what parts of this woman ( someone that has gone that far whether she's had the "big surgery" or not deserves to be called a woman ) what parts of this woman does he find attractive? Is it her personality, her humor, her intelligence, or her compassion? Physically is he interested more in her face, her shoulders, her breasts? Or is he looking at her crotch and wondering about her penis? These are the sorts of things he should ask himself I think. Has he ever thought about other men in a sexual way? If the answer is no and he is feeling attraction for her the same way he would for any other woman, then the answer in my mind is that he's still heterosexual, he's responding to her based on her feminine presentation and cues, not on anything else.
And the correct term is whatever she calls herself, if she says shemale it's fine, though many prefer to use this term for adult entertainers, the more common term would be pre-operative transsexual, or transsexual woman, whatever ( as your friend ) makes her the most comfortable. The most important thing though is open communication, in this case your husband communicating with himself about what he really wants, is really curious about, etc.
Good Luck, I'll be curious to see where this leads,
"GO COMMUNICATION!!"
Rachael

Appreciate your comments.First of all she has never had surgery.Parents left it up to her[she prefers being female],with a fully functional penis,but with a women's body[curves,breasts,perfect butt,face,voice,lips].my master has no attraction for men and not even a anal lover,though we do have anal sex.I know he was attracted to her butt,we both love her personality and a great sense of humor.Both very professional,open minded and very sexy along with sexual as they have both asked ,commented about a weekend of fun in bed with us.I know that it's the penis attached that bothers him[for sex only] and like I said not much of a anal lover.We know she likes anal sense we have seen her other half with a strapon in her carry bag.My master has remarked that her penis looks like our son's,who likes to show us and asks whats happening when he gets an erection.We tell him that he needs to pee[I hope],at seven yrs. old.Anyway it doesn't bother me and quite excited to see what happens.Of course when it comes to sucking a penis that is my job and now recently love those women's nipples,among other things.Will keep you informed.Luv:)

So here's a direct reply, first I am so glad as it sounds like he is really answering his own questions. I would imagine for the three of you to play, he would focus on everything above the waist with this gal, and let you focus on her below the waist. To be explicit,if he's worried about it, he should have penetrative sex with you, and just enjoy making out with her, playing with her breasts etc. If she's into penetrative sex you can be the one to share that with her, giving or receiving. Maybe your Master will feel differently about it after seeing you with her, seeing you enjoy yourself with her, I don't know. If he's just really hung up on it, then just don't worry about it, enjoy some really hot steamy make-out sessions and forget about anything more. There's this focus that you have to, I don't know, go all the way with every sex partner you're with, sometimes it's fun just to make out for making out's sake without needing any pressure to do anything more. AND he may find once he's making out with her that his desire to be with her in some way is stronger than his issue with her "plumbing". If something DOES happen, try and reassure him just how sexy and manly he still is, reassure him that it doesn't make him bi or gay, that he's still the same manly Master you've always worshipped. I say this because he might enjoy something with her only later to have it play on his mind, but if you focus on just how sexy and powerful he is, how manly etc, reassure him, and immediately not later on, it will help him to overcome any doubts later on. As always, "GO COMMUNICATION!!!" and keep us all posted how this beautiful budding romance is going,
Hugs,
Rachael

Our friends [Beth&Carla]arrived just in time to meet my mistress[leaving,Boo],but will meet her at the beach wednesday.I was warned to be a bad girl.haha...Anyway we all hugged and kissed.Surrounded by these beautiful ladies and handsome master we started to get intimate[after getting naked,swimming,eating,etc].While serving I was fondled and kissed by everyone.My master then positioned on my knees so my face was in Beth's muf.As i licked her i stroked my master and Carla's penis.He took my head and put me in front of Carla's penis.As i sucked her she reached for my master's penis and stroked him without any rejection from him.I became throughly aroused as Beth joined them.To the bedroom we went!!.Carla paid special attention to licking my bottom as Beth went down on my master.They were soon F**king to my delight getting to watch.Carla mounted me with her tiny penis.Beth grabbed my hair as she screamed[obviously having a orgasm].My master guided my head to his and Carla's penis.Carla shot streams of cream[more like a woman's ejaculation] into my mouth and then rewarded with my master's cum.The ladies both joined me licking my master clean.This morning when i woke up my master was pumping Beth from behind.I kissed him and said good morning to both of them and went to start breakfast.I hoping to see him mount Carla when we get to the beach.

After a night of leap frogging we spent a relaxing day by the pool.Carla was wearing a thong bottom not exposing her male package.She is quite exotic and to find out she is submissive to Beth.She also told us that it has been 13 yrs. since she has had a real penis.Beth uses a strapon on her.My master told her she might like the real thing[I almost fainted,shocked].Beth replied,yes and needs a good spanking by a man.With some good ice breaking my master left to cut the grass,we also had to clean and pack.Carla's humor about it was great and flirted all day,shaking her pretty bottom.Before going to bed I ask my master if they could join us and he gave me permission to invite them.When they came in the bedroom beth took out real hand cuffs and hand cuffed Carla to the bed post and told me to help myself handing me a dildo.Which I did giving her a blow job and a prostate massage.Beth wasted no time getting my master erect and he crawled between her legs then filling her pussy.She wrapped her legs around him.She was very verbal about how she loved his cock.I was so aroused i brought myself to an orgasm and Carla shot off.I could hardly swallow all of her big spurts.My master got off Beth and she jacked him off on Carla's ass.We both licked it up,paying some attention to Carla's bum.I was wrapped in Carla's arms as Beth fell asleep hugged with my master.I can't beleive that this is only the beginning and waiting my turn for the hand cuffs.Loving it all

Originally posted by: Rachael559
So here's a direct reply, first I am so glad as it sounds like he is really answering his own questions. I would imagine for the three of you to play, he would focus on everything above the waist with this gal, and let you focus on her below the waist. To be explicit,if he's worried about it, he should have penetrative sex with you, and just enjoy making out with her, playing with her breasts etc. If she's into penetrative sex you can be the one to share that with her, giving or receiving. Maybe your Master will feel differently about it after seeing you with her, seeing you enjoy yourself with her, I don't know. If he's just really hung up on it, then just don't worry about it, enjoy some really hot steamy make-out sessions and forget about anything more. There's this focus that you have to, I don't know, go all the way with every sex partner you're with, sometimes it's fun just to make out for making out's sake without needing any pressure to do anything more. AND he may find once he's making out with her that his desire to be with her in some way is stronger than his issue with her "plumbing". If something DOES happen, try and reassure him just how sexy and manly he still is, reassure him that it doesn't make him bi or gay, that he's still the same manly Master you've always worshipped. I say this because he might enjoy something with her only later to have it play on his mind, but if you focus on just how sexy and powerful he is, how manly etc, reassure him, and immediately not later on, it will help him to overcome any doubts later on. As always, "GO COMMUNICATION!!!" and keep us all posted how this beautiful budding romance is going,
Hugs,
Rachael

Hi,just wanted to tell you that my Master had sex with Carla[shemale].It started with her penetrating me the night before.He loved it.The next day she performed oral on him without him resisting at all.Then Beth who was all over my Master took Carla and bent her over the bar stool,putting a condom on my Master she guided him into her sweet bottom controlling his strokes.With her girlish moans it only took awhile before he took hold of her hips and was very gentle with her.I watched as her penis jumped up and down seeing these beautiful breasts and lady's body.I was never so turned on in my life.Beth and I both started kissing her,stroking her until she screamed and shot off.My Master took me and put a rubber pool float next to the pool and we had sex in front of everybody[as if we cared].It was just great!....Luv Sub