Hello Dan and Jennifer. This is a first for me, but I really have no where else to turn.
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for around half a year. I have OCD and am not comfortable with intimate body parts and fluid, therefore, we haven't gone "that far" in our relationship. This past weekend I gave in and wanted to give him oral sex for the first time.
After making out and me becoming topless, his pants came off, but he wasn't hard. I, for one, was stumped. He said it was nerves, but I still felt like I should have done something. I played with it for a bit still nothing. We cut our losses after awhile and quit.
My question is, how can I please him? I can't give him sex yet but when I tried an alternative it failed horribly...